"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to post handle a case of whisky ****

Hate the game..

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So this girl that was totally DTF and that I find attractive ended up in my bed this weekend. I know for a fact she has been really into me for a while now. Everything is going great and then bam whisky dik. Literally it just refused to work, soon after she said she was tired and needed to go home. So my question is how do I handle this? Just move on and forget about her or send out a benign text to see if she still has interest? Have girls that have thought you very attractive before a one night stand, then experience your having whisky dik loose all interest?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bible_Belt

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Act like nothing ever happened. Guys feel inadequate in that situation, but they don't realize that the girl feels just as much if not more inadequate. She will blame herself, and anything you say will only make it worse.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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VladPatton

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Mike32ct said:
Finger her good. Ask her to stay over.

Wake up with morning wood. Try again.

^^Yep...as long as you have 10 fingers and a tongue, you should be ok.
 

rhythmic

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Only time that ever happened to me, I ended up hiding it by going down on her for like 2 hours. She didn't complain.

As for handling it afterwards? She took me for breakfast :p
 
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