"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to post handle a case of whisky ****

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Hate the game..

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So this girl that was totally DTF and that I find attractive ended up in my bed this weekend. I know for a fact she has been really into me for a while now. Everything is going great and then bam whisky dik. Literally it just refused to work, soon after she said she was tired and needed to go home. So my question is how do I handle this? Just move on and forget about her or send out a benign text to see if she still has interest? Have girls that have thought you very attractive before a one night stand, then experience your having whisky dik loose all interest?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Act like nothing ever happened. Guys feel inadequate in that situation, but they don't realize that the girl feels just as much if not more inadequate. She will blame herself, and anything you say will only make it worse.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mike32ct said:
Finger her good. Ask her to stay over.

Wake up with morning wood. Try again.
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^^Yep...as long as you have 10 fingers and a tongue, you should be ok.
 
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Only time that ever happened to me, I ended up hiding it by going down on her for like 2 hours. She didn't complain.

As for handling it afterwards? She took me for breakfast :p
 
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