“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to play this one guys?

Dan08

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Went out Halloween and got with a mate. Found out she was keen for ltr, but I'm not so I LJBF her.

However, during the night was talking to another mate. Both very drunk, and we both confess feelings etc. say things we shouldn't.

She's got a bf and he's an utter ****, and knowing what I know I won't go into the same room as him or I'll lamp him...

Anyways she wants to pretend the convo never happened which I'm totally cool with seeing as I hardly remember most of it. I know what I would've said however, because this girl is great and I would've told her as much.

Question for you tho guys, whilst I'm gonna be off spinning plates etc. I'd like to keep this girl open to a ltr if she were to end if with the bf or all that bollocks.

I'm no home-wrecker so I won't go there whilst he's in the picture.

But how to keep things ticking over?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dan08 said:
But how to keep things ticking over?
You don't......like you said, you have better fish to fry.

Ironically, by never initiating anything with her, it will increase her attraction for you more than trying to "keep the flame alive" ever will.
 

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I agree just keep a channel open with her for now, don't initiate anything. Also never mention her boyfriend or talk to her about her boyfriend, you are not her emotional tampon. Don't give her any advice on it because then you'd get into friend zone territory, just let her f**k it up for herself.

As soon as it ends or in some fight with him she may be running off to you. Then there will be your chance. Your other chance is party and alcohol and then anything can happen. But let her be and concentrate on other slags and keep her on the low.
 
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