"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to play this one guys?

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Dan08

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Went out Halloween and got with a mate. Found out she was keen for ltr, but I'm not so I LJBF her.

However, during the night was talking to another mate. Both very drunk, and we both confess feelings etc. say things we shouldn't.

She's got a bf and he's an utter ****, and knowing what I know I won't go into the same room as him or I'll lamp him...

Anyways she wants to pretend the convo never happened which I'm totally cool with seeing as I hardly remember most of it. I know what I would've said however, because this girl is great and I would've told her as much.

Question for you tho guys, whilst I'm gonna be off spinning plates etc. I'd like to keep this girl open to a ltr if she were to end if with the bf or all that bollocks.

I'm no home-wrecker so I won't go there whilst he's in the picture.

But how to keep things ticking over?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dan08 said:
But how to keep things ticking over?
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You don't......like you said, you have better fish to fry.

Ironically, by never initiating anything with her, it will increase her attraction for you more than trying to "keep the flame alive" ever will.
 
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I agree just keep a channel open with her for now, don't initiate anything. Also never mention her boyfriend or talk to her about her boyfriend, you are not her emotional tampon. Don't give her any advice on it because then you'd get into friend zone territory, just let her f**k it up for herself.

As soon as it ends or in some fight with him she may be running off to you. Then there will be your chance. Your other chance is party and alcohol and then anything can happen. But let her be and concentrate on other slags and keep her on the low.
 
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