How to play this new 20yr HB. ?? Guidance Please

[jackhamma]

Matched with a 20yr old HB8 on Tinder.
She messaged me "Hey"
I wrote back "Hey whats going on what you up to?"
We talked about TV shows and movies for 20m
When it got late she messaged me with a response to where are you originally from and she said "Brazil " then she said "text me and sent me her #"

So I text her and 30m later she says "Hey going to bed but lets talk tomorrow" I replied with "Cool. goodnight"

Hit her up today and were making small chit chat..


How should I play this one out? Can't determine to go for the hang out or just chit chat a bit more.

Opinions?

 

[apprenticedj]

You've already chit chatted plenty, secure a meet up ASAP. Two reasons: #1 you'll know if she's down to actually meet vs. looking for online attention. #2 These online chicks lose interest quickly with too much texting.

Waste NO time

 

[jackhamma]

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[jackhamma]

You've already chit chatted plenty, secure a meet up ASAP. Two reasons: #1 you'll know if she's down to actually meet vs. looking for online attention. #2 These online chicks lose interest quickly with too much texting.

Waste NO time

I shot her a text saying lets hit the beach tomorrow and she responded with the follow:

"I might go in the pool with a friend later at night. You can come"
"Tomorrow I have a photo shoot and then going hiking at night so I am going to be pretty busy."

So I responded with "Yeah I'm down. What time you thinking tonight to hit the pool?"

Waiting for her response...

So if tonight successfully pulls together..I am assuming her friend is female, I hope?

Any tips on tonight?? How should I act/play it?

 

[Konada]

I shot her a text saying lets hit the beach tomorrow and she responded with the follow:

"I might go in the pool with a friend later at night. You can come"
"Tomorrow I have a photo shoot and then going hiking at night so I am going to be pretty busy."

So I responded with "Yeah I'm down. What time you thinking tonight to hit the pool?"

Waiting for her response...

So if tonight successfully pulls together..I am assuming her friend is female, I hope?

Any tips on tonight?? How should I act/play it?

I hope when you accepted her offer of going to a pool it wasn't because your desperate. Otherwise, just play it cool and enjoy yourself. Isolate and escalate.

However, you put yourself in a pretty weak position because:

1. You pandered to her schedule. A 2 choose 1 method for dates would be better simply because it shows your time is valuable. A date probably 2 days after is better than suggesting tomorrow, you come off as too eager/desperate.

2. You ****-blocked yourself by allowing her friend to be in the vicinity. Right now she is either saying 'I'm not interested' or 'I don't feel comfortable meeting you alone' Now you're subjecting yourself to not only pass ****tests from 1 but 2 people.

I hope you realize what's going on and set yourself up for success better in the future.

Do keep in mind though she might have some interest in you so just go with it. Good luck!

 

[pyros]

no need to panic. Clearly she is not THAT intereted in you, this is why she invited you along. Pool at night? sounds good. Just go there, have fun, talk to her friend a little bit more than to her.
If everything goes fine, she might suggest to do something else this time without her friend, if she doesn't, no prob, you can suggest it yourself.

Now, if after that 'date' you ask her out and she declines or wants to meet you with her friends...I would next her.

No harm in trying.

 

[Fireballs]

The best thing to do is act like you're on a date with her friend.

 

[Jake722]

The best thing to do is act like you're on a date with her friend.

Great advice.

 

[Krueg]

I would cancel, this started out bad from the beginning. I agree with pyros, her interest level is low and is setting up the date on her conditions...