"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to play the date when chick is sick.

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Took a chick out I've been working on for a while. Legit HB9, get's looks and comments everywhere we go. While on the date she tells me she thinks she's getting sick and is coughing as the night progresses. I think to myself: aight, display self control and realize you've got a limit to how much you can get on a sick date.

Everything goes good, get her back to my place, feel her up, cuddle for several hours, but didn't try and kiss her at all.

When it comes time for her to leave, I walk her out, and go for a kiss on the left cheek. She tries to intercept me with her mouth so I switch it up and hit her up on the right cheek. Kind of an awkward exchange.

She looks and me and says something to the effect of "Are you that worried about getting sick?" I smiled back, gave her a quick peck on the lips and wished her a good night.

My thought is, why would I want to kiss a sick chick? Come back when you're healthy and I'll kiss the **** outta you and continue to escalate.

Seemed like the best frame to keep instead of looking like the guy who is sooo excited to kiss a hot chick that he's willing to get sick for a kiss.

Did I handle this correct?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are allowed to show interest in a girl! It is not a bad thing when you wanna kiss her in spite of the risk of getting sick, she won't look at that as 'being desperate' or anything.

So if you really wanted to kiss her but didn't do it becaue you didn't want to appear 'too excited', I think you did not handle the situation correctly.

Just my two cents.
 
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Dude, if you're cuddled that close to her for that long, chances are you're gonna catch what she's got. :p

Just saying.
 
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When she said that I would be like "You bet your sweet little ass I don't want to get sick. Come back when you feel better and I'll make love to you all night, until then, I have no idea who you got that **** from and I don't want it." Then you say "I'll see you in a week my dear, take some antibiotics." Fuvk that, I don't want to catch a cold from some bitvch that is not my girlfriend. Rotten ass puvsy. I'll bet she got it from swallowing some guys load.
 
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Falcon25 said:
When she said that I would be like "You bet your sweet little ass I don't want to get sick. Come back when you feel better and I'll make love to you all night, until then, I have no idea who you got that **** from and I don't want it." Then you say "I'll see you in a week my dear, take some antibiotics." Fuvk that, I don't want to catch a cold from some bitvch that is not my girlfriend. Rotten ass puvsy. I'll bet she got it from swallowing some guys load.
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Yeah, my thoughts exactly...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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