"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to play the date when chick is sick.

Weezy

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Took a chick out I've been working on for a while. Legit HB9, get's looks and comments everywhere we go. While on the date she tells me she thinks she's getting sick and is coughing as the night progresses. I think to myself: aight, display self control and realize you've got a limit to how much you can get on a sick date.

Everything goes good, get her back to my place, feel her up, cuddle for several hours, but didn't try and kiss her at all.

When it comes time for her to leave, I walk her out, and go for a kiss on the left cheek. She tries to intercept me with her mouth so I switch it up and hit her up on the right cheek. Kind of an awkward exchange.

She looks and me and says something to the effect of "Are you that worried about getting sick?" I smiled back, gave her a quick peck on the lips and wished her a good night.

My thought is, why would I want to kiss a sick chick? Come back when you're healthy and I'll kiss the **** outta you and continue to escalate.

Seemed like the best frame to keep instead of looking like the guy who is sooo excited to kiss a hot chick that he's willing to get sick for a kiss.

Did I handle this correct?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Die Hard

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You are allowed to show interest in a girl! It is not a bad thing when you wanna kiss her in spite of the risk of getting sick, she won't look at that as 'being desperate' or anything.

So if you really wanted to kiss her but didn't do it becaue you didn't want to appear 'too excited', I think you did not handle the situation correctly.

Just my two cents.
 

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Dude, if you're cuddled that close to her for that long, chances are you're gonna catch what she's got. :p

Just saying.
 

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When she said that I would be like "You bet your sweet little ass I don't want to get sick. Come back when you feel better and I'll make love to you all night, until then, I have no idea who you got that **** from and I don't want it." Then you say "I'll see you in a week my dear, take some antibiotics." Fuvk that, I don't want to catch a cold from some bitvch that is not my girlfriend. Rotten ass puvsy. I'll bet she got it from swallowing some guys load.
 

Weezy

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Falcon25 said:
When she said that I would be like "You bet your sweet little ass I don't want to get sick. Come back when you feel better and I'll make love to you all night, until then, I have no idea who you got that **** from and I don't want it." Then you say "I'll see you in a week my dear, take some antibiotics." Fuvk that, I don't want to catch a cold from some bitvch that is not my girlfriend. Rotten ass puvsy. I'll bet she got it from swallowing some guys load.
Yeah, my thoughts exactly...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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