"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to play a tease

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problem- this girl i know that i kinda have a crush on is definately a tease, she flirts wiht alotta guys and that kinda stuff, but sometimes i feel as if though shes really attracted to me, but i dont know for sure cause then sometimes she seems like she isnt, should i tease her back, or just act like i dont give a sh*t or how should i play this
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by requested
problem- this girl i know that i kinda have a crush on is definately a tease, she flirts wiht alotta guys and that kinda stuff, but sometimes i feel as if though shes really attracted to me, but i dont know for sure cause then sometimes she seems like she isnt, should i tease her back, or just act like i dont give a sh*t or how should i play this
She's an AW, either next her or ignore her. You'll only stand out if you're doing something all the other guys aren't.
 

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Originally posted by requested
problem- this girl i know that i kinda have a crush on is definately a tease, she flirts wiht alotta guys and that kinda stuff, but sometimes i feel as if though shes really attracted to me, but i dont know for sure cause then sometimes she seems like she isnt, should i tease her back, or just act like i dont give a sh*t or how should i play this
Don't "act" like you don't care.

You just need to don't care period. This chick is all game. Right now, all the guys who are falling for it are not challenging to her.

Therefore, just don't care, ignore her flirting, and talk to other women. She'll gravitate right to you.
 
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