"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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problem- this girl i know that i kinda have a crush on is definately a tease, she flirts wiht alotta guys and that kinda stuff, but sometimes i feel as if though shes really attracted to me, but i dont know for sure cause then sometimes she seems like she isnt, should i tease her back, or just act like i dont give a sh*t or how should i play this
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by requested
problem- this girl i know that i kinda have a crush on is definately a tease, she flirts wiht alotta guys and that kinda stuff, but sometimes i feel as if though shes really attracted to me, but i dont know for sure cause then sometimes she seems like she isnt, should i tease her back, or just act like i dont give a sh*t or how should i play this
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She's an AW, either next her or ignore her. You'll only stand out if you're doing something all the other guys aren't.
 
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Originally posted by requested
problem- this girl i know that i kinda have a crush on is definately a tease, she flirts wiht alotta guys and that kinda stuff, but sometimes i feel as if though shes really attracted to me, but i dont know for sure cause then sometimes she seems like she isnt, should i tease her back, or just act like i dont give a sh*t or how should i play this
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Don't "act" like you don't care.

You just need to don't care period. This chick is all game. Right now, all the guys who are falling for it are not challenging to her.

Therefore, just don't care, ignore her flirting, and talk to other women. She'll gravitate right to you.
 
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