We_ArE_VeNOM
Master Don Juan
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Ain't nothing wrong with it.Sometimes I tend to find women that are slightly older than me attractive.
These are rejections.Let’s say I’m 25 years old, and they are 30-35 or sometimes even around 40s. I’ve cold approached some of those but it never got anywhere. They showed some interest throughout the interaction, and I've even got a few numbers but they didn’t respond to my texts afterwards.
It has happened to me, too.
That is why, as a rule of thumb..I suggest that..
Instead of getting their numbers..
You give them your number.
If you provide them your number, you'll know that if you are contacted by them, that they have a genuine interest in you.
Yeah, the mental blockThis by itself is not enough of evidence that I won't have success with these women anytime soon, but even in the sets oftentimes they will hear my age, and then just have the mental block, on a logical level, that this man-to-woman thing between us is not going to happen.
I've been there, too.
That's what Ive been trying to tell dudes...most (virtually all) of the interactions I've had with women during cold approach have been positive...even the rejections (in fact, most of the rejections).And they usually share their objections in the conversation. Or it just might be an excuse for their lack of attraction to me, but I can't confirm that yet. Most of them seemed somewhat intrigued.
The women are often intrigued, flattered, pleasantly surprised, and some have even blushed.
These are all genuine, sincere feelings in real time.
I do believe that social conditioning plays a role in the female mindset and to a certain degree, even hypergamy.I know that according to social conditioning and hypergamy, it doesn't make sense that an attractive 30-35 years old woman will date a younger guy who is nowhere near her "level" in the main fields of life. In my mind, I think such a woman would be aiming at successful men at their peak SMV, who can provide luxurious experiences for her, raise her status in society, grant her access to opportunities, build a family with her, and treat her like an experienced man would (?)
But I dont believe that either are the majority.
I am of the belief that physical attraction breaks through both of those barriers more often than not.
I agree.And so according to my logic, the only thing I can provide them in such case is: good time, adventure, emotions, "fun" + the fact that I boldly approach them in public and try to seduce them without hiding my intentions, which they seldom experience in this way. However, most of them seem to be already over that fun phase, and now are more pragmatic than ever. I guess the only possible path to success in such a scenario is to "game" them hard, have a strong masculine frame, be smooth, and avoid at all cost everything logical. But since they are more mature, this is not that easy.
Game, strong masculine frame (mental and physical) smooth...and avoiding her logic, while maintaining yours.
Once you can captivate their minds with those^, their bodies will follow.
Yes, keep us updated.(I haven't tried it lately, so more evidence might be needed to get a full sense of how it works or why it doesn't. Might post updates here later this year.)
What's your take on this?

