"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How To Pick Up Women

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shoot the first woman you see ( not literally but you approach the first woman you see )

ask an easy question " where is OBAMA STREET" ( you have a townmap in your hand to add to your credibilty )

neg 1 YOU HAVE AN ACCENT ARE YOU FROM THE COUNTRY ( show you re not a player women hate players )

Then say " i m new around here i m visiting flats "

smile a lot


then go on with " i m supposed to meet this landlord guy at 16 H "


you actually trying to locate this street so it actually makes sense you are not a player in anycase


dURING THE CONVO SAY ? AT SOME POINT" i hope i m not taking your time " and " you re very helpful ( = hypnotic inductions ) she ll naturally rply ' no you re not taking my time !! She has to say that !! this is a gret technique


now you are going to leave before you do so , praise again ( labelling social psychology ) and


check out my next thread about how getting her digits
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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manipulation

it s all manipulation but it s fun to do and get results

the women feels valued because she s given you directions , she s made the effort to find you your street thru using your map , you ve praised her TWICE
 

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obama

surprised there d be an OBAMA STREET down where i live?
NOT MORE SURPRISING THAN OBAMA GETTING THE NOBEL PRIZE after being in office only for 6 MONTHS
 

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it seems to me i m doing all the work here on the DJ FORUMS( how about me running the forum ? i guess nobody ll vote for me )
No replys from you guys

i ve actually given you the key to becoming the ultimate DON JUANS but you don t take any notice !!!
 

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Calling out on attention-seeking behaving

ALPHAROMEO said:
show you re not a player women hate players )
Totally wrong...women LOVE players. It's fun for them. They don't like guys who think they are players, yet still uncomfortable around women.

ALPHAROMEO said:
check out my next thread about how getting her digits
WTF!?!:rolleyes:

Allright...

HERE IS YOUR COOKIE :kick:

Good boy!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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