"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How To Pick Up Women

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shoot the first woman you see ( not literally but you approach the first woman you see )

ask an easy question " where is OBAMA STREET" ( you have a townmap in your hand to add to your credibilty )

neg 1 YOU HAVE AN ACCENT ARE YOU FROM THE COUNTRY ( show you re not a player women hate players )

Then say " i m new around here i m visiting flats "

smile a lot


then go on with " i m supposed to meet this landlord guy at 16 H "


you actually trying to locate this street so it actually makes sense you are not a player in anycase


dURING THE CONVO SAY ? AT SOME POINT" i hope i m not taking your time " and " you re very helpful ( = hypnotic inductions ) she ll naturally rply ' no you re not taking my time !! She has to say that !! this is a gret technique


now you are going to leave before you do so , praise again ( labelling social psychology ) and


check out my next thread about how getting her digits
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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manipulation

it s all manipulation but it s fun to do and get results

the women feels valued because she s given you directions , she s made the effort to find you your street thru using your map , you ve praised her TWICE
 

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surprised there d be an OBAMA STREET down where i live?
NOT MORE SURPRISING THAN OBAMA GETTING THE NOBEL PRIZE after being in office only for 6 MONTHS
 

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it seems to me i m doing all the work here on the DJ FORUMS( how about me running the forum ? i guess nobody ll vote for me )
No replys from you guys

i ve actually given you the key to becoming the ultimate DON JUANS but you don t take any notice !!!
 

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Calling out on attention-seeking behaving

ALPHAROMEO said:
show you re not a player women hate players )
Totally wrong...women LOVE players. It's fun for them. They don't like guys who think they are players, yet still uncomfortable around women.

ALPHAROMEO said:
check out my next thread about how getting her digits
WTF!?!:rolleyes:

Allright...

HERE IS YOUR COOKIE :kick:

Good boy!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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