"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to pick up a professional dancer with a sense of entitlement?

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I am a member of a traveller's organisation that provides visitors to Australia with short-term accomodation in host's houses, as well as shows them around the city.

I got contacted by a professional dancer from New York coming out here for six months as part of a job. She asked if she could have free accomodation with me for the whole six months(!) in exchange for some light housework. This seems like quite the outrageous request, as the normal period of stay is for a few days. I was going to ignore her request until I looked her up on-line and discovered she was a 9.5!

So my question is how do I turn this request to my advantage? So far, I have sent her this e-mail:

"Hi there ****,

I may be able to help out. I have a place near the city where you would have your own room and kitchen ... However, I prefer to meet anyone I am hosting for that long before offering the room ... I have already had a few visitors arriving in Feburary write to me as well ... If you are interested, contact me when you arrive and I will be happy to meet up to see if you are the sort of person I would be happy to have stay for a few months ... I would be happy to host you if things work out after we meet."

Basically, I am sure that she has lots of AFC's kissing her ass, begging to have her stay with her so I figured that I should make her feel that she has to work to earn the right to stay with me. She has already responded, saying that she wants to keep in touch with me AND meet me once she arrives, despite the fact that she probably has a ton of guys already offering her a place. So how do I take it from here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If she has a sense of entitlement then it's better you avoid her. She might actually be good around the house and give 100% but I bet she isn't.


I wouldn't agree to it though. You seem to want something off her and she wants something off you but if you give her the place to stay in then don't expect her to give you anything in return.


At least you done well so far by not saying yes straight away. That would have been crazy.


The way to find out what she's really like is to question her about herself.
 
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slaog said:
If she has a sense of entitlement then it's better you avoid her. She might actually be good around the house and give 100% but I bet she isn't.

I wouldn't agree to it though. You seem to want something off her and she wants something off you but if you give her the place to stay in then don't expect her to give you anything in return.

At least you done well so far by not saying yes straight away. That would have been crazy.

The way to find out what she's really like is to question her about herself.
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Thanks for the good advice!

However, who said anything about letting her move in? She is going to have to do a LOT before I would even consider the idea because she sounds like a spoiled primadonna, albeit a really hot one.

However, I do have her in a position where she wants something from me, and I am presumably one of the few guys who have said no to her. My post was more me trying to work out how I can work this in my favour with regards to getting her into bed.
 
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"light housework" is code. It means she'll polish your c0ck not the coffee table.
 
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theunflushables said:
"light housework" is code. It means she'll polish your c0ck not the coffee table.
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I wish! Nah, she mentioned "folding clothes" and "helping out with cleaning" so I am guessing she is not offering sex, at least not yet ... :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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1. Is it customary to sell your balls for a number such as 9.5??

2. When you take off the make up she wont be so hot.

3. You are aware that she is a prostitute oh you guys don't have laws for that down there as I recall. So is it ok if she turns some tricks in that home?

4. Also she must be a loser at what she is doing if she is trying to get free rent. Any fool can have a website these days.

5. Also I guess this would make you trick-firefly instead of firefly.
 
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Firefly said:
I wish! Nah, she mentioned "folding clothes" and "helping out with cleaning" so I am guessing she is not offering sex, at least not yet ... :)
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See, exactly. Folding the clothes you are taking off and cleaning your balls with her tongue. I can find double entendres in anything. :up:
 
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Firefly said:
IThis seems like quite the outrageous request, as the normal period of stay is for a few days. I was going to ignore her request until I looked her up on-line and discovered she was a 9.5!
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So, you were going to ignore her, but then based purely on LOOKS alone that was enough to sway your decision:down: ? If this chick was butt ugly would you bend the rules for her?

"I would be happy to host you if things work out after we meet."

OMG, prostitution:cuss:
 
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See, exactly. Folding the clothes you are taking off and cleaning your balls with her tongue. I can find double entendres in anything. :up:
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Nah, I think you are reading way too much into it. She also offered to "pleasure me for hours with her tounge" and "introduce me to her sweet canal of love". I am not sure what these phrases mean, but I think they may be euphemisms for cleaning ... :)
 
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Dust 2 Dust said:
So, you were going to ignore her, but then based purely on LOOKS alone that was enough to sway your decision:down: ? If this chick was butt ugly would you bend the rules for her?
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Bend what rules? As I stated before, I may be using her attempt to scam free accomodation to meet her, but I have no intention of letting her stay.

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"I would be happy to host you if things work out after we meet."

OMG, prostitution:cuss:
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No, just setting down conditions to make her feel that she is the one who needs to impress me.

I don't think my fellow DJ's are understanding the help I am asking for in this post. I have a girl here who is really hot, but also has an inflated sense of entitlement. I am in a position where she really wants something from me, and so far I have not rolled over and given it to her like an AFC, but have set it up so that she feels she needs to win approval from me in order to get what she wants. My questions is how do I use this set of circumstances, and how should I proceed from now on, in order to get her into bed?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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As a dancer who occasionally hosts other dancers from interstate or overseas, I recommend that you shouldn't overlook the possibility that this one could be your entry ticket into the world of professional dancers, where you'll find many women just as hot as she is.

I'd meet up with her, offer her a month to see how you two get along, and take it from there.
 
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Firefly said:
Nah, I think you are reading way too much into it. She also offered to "pleasure me for hours with her tounge" and "introduce me to her sweet canal of love". I am not sure what these phrases mean, but I think they may be euphemisms for cleaning ... :)
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Yeah, that mean she is going to dust the mantle and vacuum the floor.
 
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