"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to pick oout the Horny Women
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
arutha
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'Hey, wanna f*ck?'
I read years ago that in a club setting it has about a 1 in 20 chance of success, thats only like 15 minutes work. No harm in trying if sex is all you want.
Nutz
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That's basically the gist of the Apocalypse Opener.arutha said:
Tips for screening logistics are:
Who'd you come here with?
What are you doing later?
You don't say them at the same time of course or it'll be obvious why you're asking, but they do help serve to weed out the ones you won't be banging that night.
Hunting for DTF chicks is tougher and I'm still working on this part myself, so I'll be watching for tips as well. One thing that does come to mind is eye-f*cking. If she's looking you up and down and really touchy feely, it's a good sign you can escalate fast. Oh, going for SNLs something to keep in mind is screen screen screen. It'll partly be a numbers game since you'll want to find them quicker and not spend 45 minutes on a chick that isn't going to work out later. Quick sets, screen screen screen, and try to escalate fast as you can get away with.
HeyPachuco!
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I didn't get as far as getting a DTF chick but we made out later on that night, in the back of the club, right next to the DJ set. However this has only happend twice to me.
But yeah ''eye-fvcking'' should be a good indicator. Get her to rape you with her eyes. After that, it should be up to you how it goes down.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
HeyPachuco!
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Yeah dude,romangod said:
Listen to this guy, and atleast it'll give you something to get arrested for, gets chicks wet
Scars
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The problem with slvtty girls is that they try to hide it, and they usually do a good job of it up until they get clumsy drunk, but usually by that point a guy has already got her in the palm of his hands simply because he showed initiative.
My game has always been to talk to all the woman. The one that is the most reactive to my flirting is usually the girl I will then target most of my attention towards, however it doesn't always work out as planned. I can recall an instance where I was unknowingly talking to the "slvt" but she wasn't giving me as good of vibes as another girl. Simply because she was trying to be covert about things. So I spent all my time with another girl and got nowhere just to find my buddy ****ing the other girl on the side of the house simply because he showed initiative. During my time talking with her, I didn't want to come off as a creep. But my drunken friend, pretty much non verbally propositioned her for sex and got the lay.
Perhaps take a look at how she's dressed? If she looks slvtty, then she probably is, or she is an attention wh0re.
The screening stuff that Nutz posted earlier is also good. Those questions can give you a clue. Who she came with.. where she is staying that night.. etc..
Bible_Belt
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Dannyrt34
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As for the rest, that's YOUR job! You need to make them horny. It's no lie when it's said that you need to make girls feel something over being logical.
I just got off the phone with the girl I'm talking to, we were talking about how nice cuddling FEELS, and how I love when a girl sits on my lap, facing me, and kissing my neck. Talk about these things, but talk about how they make her feel too.
You need to steer the conversation in this direction. And it really works great. She just texted me saying "Our conversation slighty turned me on, I need to see you asap!"