"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How to pick oout the Horny Women
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
arutha
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'Hey, wanna f*ck?'
I read years ago that in a club setting it has about a 1 in 20 chance of success, thats only like 15 minutes work. No harm in trying if sex is all you want.
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That's basically the gist of the Apocalypse Opener.arutha said:
Tips for screening logistics are:
Who'd you come here with?
What are you doing later?
You don't say them at the same time of course or it'll be obvious why you're asking, but they do help serve to weed out the ones you won't be banging that night.
Hunting for DTF chicks is tougher and I'm still working on this part myself, so I'll be watching for tips as well. One thing that does come to mind is eye-f*cking. If she's looking you up and down and really touchy feely, it's a good sign you can escalate fast. Oh, going for SNLs something to keep in mind is screen screen screen. It'll partly be a numbers game since you'll want to find them quicker and not spend 45 minutes on a chick that isn't going to work out later. Quick sets, screen screen screen, and try to escalate fast as you can get away with.
HeyPachuco!
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I didn't get as far as getting a DTF chick but we made out later on that night, in the back of the club, right next to the DJ set. However this has only happend twice to me.
But yeah ''eye-fvcking'' should be a good indicator. Get her to rape you with her eyes. After that, it should be up to you how it goes down.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
HeyPachuco!
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Yeah dude,romangod said:
Listen to this guy, and atleast it'll give you something to get arrested for, gets chicks wet
Scars
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The problem with slvtty girls is that they try to hide it, and they usually do a good job of it up until they get clumsy drunk, but usually by that point a guy has already got her in the palm of his hands simply because he showed initiative.
My game has always been to talk to all the woman. The one that is the most reactive to my flirting is usually the girl I will then target most of my attention towards, however it doesn't always work out as planned. I can recall an instance where I was unknowingly talking to the "slvt" but she wasn't giving me as good of vibes as another girl. Simply because she was trying to be covert about things. So I spent all my time with another girl and got nowhere just to find my buddy ****ing the other girl on the side of the house simply because he showed initiative. During my time talking with her, I didn't want to come off as a creep. But my drunken friend, pretty much non verbally propositioned her for sex and got the lay.
Perhaps take a look at how she's dressed? If she looks slvtty, then she probably is, or she is an attention wh0re.
The screening stuff that Nutz posted earlier is also good. Those questions can give you a clue. Who she came with.. where she is staying that night.. etc..
Bible_Belt
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Dannyrt34
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As for the rest, that's YOUR job! You need to make them horny. It's no lie when it's said that you need to make girls feel something over being logical.
I just got off the phone with the girl I'm talking to, we were talking about how nice cuddling FEELS, and how I love when a girl sits on my lap, facing me, and kissing my neck. Talk about these things, but talk about how they make her feel too.
You need to steer the conversation in this direction. And it really works great. She just texted me saying "Our conversation slighty turned me on, I need to see you asap!"