"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First off I dont think this is even a shyt test but I dont know. Lately I am starting to have succes with women. I had 3 girls practically raping me in a good way because they were jealous of another girl receiving kino. Anyway my main interest is getting shoulder surgery. As of now I have passed **** tests with flying colors. Since I have all of the same classes as her she asked me to get her homework everyday for her for 3 days. I agreed i said "its goin to cost you though" but never specified. This seemingly saddend her. I think I took it too far

Right now I feel like crap though. I took it as a shyt test when she genuinly needed help. How do I get by this and still not be a jerk? Should I hold up on making her pay me back. What to do
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Upthere said:
First off I dont think this is even a shyt test but I dont know. Lately I am starting to have succes with women. I had 3 girls practically raping me in a good way because they were jealous of another girl receiving kino. Anyway my main interest is getting shoulder surgery. As of now I have passed **** tests with flying colors. Since I have all of the same classes as her she asked me to get her homework everyday for her for 3 days. I agreed i said "its goin to cost you though" but never specified. This seemingly saddend her. I think I took it too far

Right now I feel like crap though. I took it as a shyt test when she genuinly needed help. How do I get by this and still not be a jerk? Should I hold up on making her pay me back. What to do
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Calm down, first of all, that was NOT a shyt test, second of all, you said NOTHING wrong. If you think that is being a jerk, you should hear some of things I say.

Don't even give this a second thought, get her homework, then call her up (I assume you have her number) and tell her you'll bring it over. See what happens from there.
 
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After reading what I posted I now see why you said calm down. Lol. In no way am I worried. I just feel kinda bad because of her reaction. She seemed hurt. I think I am over thinking this.
 
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its goin to cost you though
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my only guess is she probably didn't understand what you meant.
FYI: what you said was not jerky or even close to being mean..
 
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i've said such worse things to people.
i girls away message is "pilates. :)"
i just said "your ass could use the workout."
lol.
what you said is no biggy, i said more mean shti all the time. chill n go with the flow. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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