"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First off I dont think this is even a shyt test but I dont know. Lately I am starting to have succes with women. I had 3 girls practically raping me in a good way because they were jealous of another girl receiving kino. Anyway my main interest is getting shoulder surgery. As of now I have passed **** tests with flying colors. Since I have all of the same classes as her she asked me to get her homework everyday for her for 3 days. I agreed i said "its goin to cost you though" but never specified. This seemingly saddend her. I think I took it too far

Right now I feel like crap though. I took it as a shyt test when she genuinly needed help. How do I get by this and still not be a jerk? Should I hold up on making her pay me back. What to do
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Upthere said:
First off I dont think this is even a shyt test but I dont know. Lately I am starting to have succes with women. I had 3 girls practically raping me in a good way because they were jealous of another girl receiving kino. Anyway my main interest is getting shoulder surgery. As of now I have passed **** tests with flying colors. Since I have all of the same classes as her she asked me to get her homework everyday for her for 3 days. I agreed i said "its goin to cost you though" but never specified. This seemingly saddend her. I think I took it too far

Right now I feel like crap though. I took it as a shyt test when she genuinly needed help. How do I get by this and still not be a jerk? Should I hold up on making her pay me back. What to do
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Calm down, first of all, that was NOT a shyt test, second of all, you said NOTHING wrong. If you think that is being a jerk, you should hear some of things I say.

Don't even give this a second thought, get her homework, then call her up (I assume you have her number) and tell her you'll bring it over. See what happens from there.
 
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After reading what I posted I now see why you said calm down. Lol. In no way am I worried. I just feel kinda bad because of her reaction. She seemed hurt. I think I am over thinking this.
 
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its goin to cost you though
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my only guess is she probably didn't understand what you meant.
FYI: what you said was not jerky or even close to being mean..
 
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i've said such worse things to people.
i girls away message is "pilates. :)"
i just said "your ass could use the workout."
lol.
what you said is no biggy, i said more mean shti all the time. chill n go with the flow. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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