Have you guys ever experienced situations where you didnt perform as well as you thought you would have in a social interaction? Like I feel stupid over the little things that I missed, like missed cues, things that I regret that I didnt do, etc. I don't know, i think i'm being hard on myself.. Needed insight on this, and how I should deal with it. Thanx in advance
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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