How to overcome bad sexual experiences?

[bigneil]

I was 6'4" 150 when I graduated high school. They used to say "If you turn to the side we can't see you!".

Then 6'5" 170 (size 34 waist) now 6'5" 230 (34 waist).

 

[devilkingx2]

on the subject of size, as long as your d!ck doesn't qualify as a micropenis (meaning, as long as it's 4 inches or bigger), only a huge slvt would have a problem with it, this is because of how vaginas work, for her to even be capable of taking a huge d!ck, she'd need constant experience with huge d!cks, which would conversely make her enjoy normal sized d!cks less. something similar would happen if she's used to being fisted or using dildos the length of your arm and the girth of a tree trunk,

but the main point is that unless she literally just got out of a 3 year relationship with a porn star, any girl who has a problem with your size has to be a huge slvt (I guess if you have a huge slvt fetish then this would be a problem).

on the plus side, the less experienced the girl is, the more she'll appreciate having less of you to accommodate (this goes for each hole individually, which is why they say small d!cks are better for anal)

as for quality of sex, the only way to improve is to practice, google some stuff, watch some porn if you need just raw information, but the only way you'll improve the mechanical skill is by fvcking more b!tches

or get a hooker and get her to help you improve your skills

 

[lizardking82]

Yes I know this and I, perhaps, haven't mastered it.

When she came over we sat on my couch nuzzling for like an hour+ watching A Bronx Tale before I initiated kissing. It was on instantly. She straddled me right then and there and we eventually went to the bedroom. I fingered her a good bit and made a feckless attempt at oral before we actually had sex.

My friends stridently insist that I need to pound hard and fast. In their collective experience, that is how ALL women have wanted it. Now -- I've heard a lot of women, sexperts, speak out against the jackhammer. What do you guys say?

Oh, please. Sexperts LOL you don't need to pound hard. It's individual. It all has to do with the way you make her feel overall. There are cases where you make her feel so good she cums once your **** is inside and you haven't even started moving, I have had that happen with my girl. Be passionate and "ram" her with foreplay. It shows her that you badly want her and that turns on any woman. When she's all nice and wet, just the feeling of your **** going inside will bring her close to orgasm if you have done everything else as you should.

Forget about your "stallion" friends who like to "ram" women LOL you can ram her once in a while, but are you able not to ***? ****ing hard when you're turned on means cumming quickly? Do you wanna *** like after 2 minutes? Ram wisely, not like a ****in' gorilla

 

[MrOctober]

Shake it off bro.

I'm well off in that area. Well off. and I've had a couple bad performances. I've had a couple I got lazy with and wasn't into it.

If your not well equipped you have to increase everything else. I'm not gonna get graphic but yea.

 

[casanova_goat]

Oh, please. Sexperts LOL you don't need to pound hard. It's individual. It all has to do with the way you make her feel overall. There are cases where you make her feel so good she cums once your **** is inside and you haven't even started moving, I have had that happen with my girl. Be passionate and "ram" her with foreplay. It shows her that you badly want her and that turns on any woman. When she's all nice and wet, just the feeling of your **** going inside will bring her close to orgasm if you have done everything else as you should.

Forget about your "stallion" friends who like to "ram" women LOL you can ram her once in a while, but are you able not to ***? ****ing hard when you're turned on means cumming quickly? Do you wanna *** like after 2 minutes? Ram wisely, not like a ****in' gorilla

Well, my friends claim they last really long and at times fail to come. They insist that I don't masturbate "hard enough" to desensitize myself and that is why I typically can't last as long. The other thing it's hard to jackhammer with a condom. I'm always worried it will come off and it takes me out of the moment. However, condoms make me last longer so it's a give and take.

 

[lizardking82]

Well, my friends claim they last really long and at times fail to come. They insist that I don't masturbate "hard enough" to desensitize myself and that is why I typically can't last as long. The other thing it's hard to jackhammer with a condom. I'm always worried it will come off and it takes me out of the moment. However, condoms make me last longer so it's a give and take.

Look, you don't need to "densensitize" yourself. One thing I have learned is that if a woman feels you quite a lot AKA if you make her feel you with your attitude, she will not have a problem with you orgasming after 6-7 minutes. That is more than enough and if you played your part well in the foreplay, you will have made her *** 2 or 3 times which is more than most guys ever will. It's about the mind, not about the body.

 

[Dingo]

OP.... I feel for you.....

Experience and size does matter... With all the **** out there no women settles for someone below average.

Most of the advise given is good.... Do the best you can... Good luck...