"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to open up an email account with a university

Mitch_Mustain

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Thing is I've been waiting forever to hear from my university(University of Minnesota) and I was wondering how to open an account with a unversity even though I'm not a student there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Le Parisien

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Mitch_Mustain said:
Thing is I've been waiting forever to hear from my university(University of Minnesota) and I was wondering how to open an account with a unversity even though I'm not a student there.
I don't know if this sounds stupid, but if you are NOT a student from the university, you simply can NOT have an email account from the university. Simple logic. It's not hotmail or yahoo you know...:nono:
 

Nex

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In theory you CAN'T, unless you're friends with a sys admin that can give you an e-mail address.
 

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Sounds like he's desperate to get on facebook and sarge online HO's
 

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So Mus, are you a student at UofM? If you are, I suggest you talk to the IT folks and they'll hook you up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IsiMan84

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If you're about to start attending there, you usually don't get your email address until orientation.
 
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