"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how to open girls solo at a club?

Febreze

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whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nmartinez12443

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Hey

I don't go to clubs if I go out alone, bars are vastly superior. I feel this because at a club girls rarely ever go in a group smaller than four and the superficialness of them is at an all time high. Also the music in a club is f'ing loud its real hard to talk period. However, my advice to you would be look GOOD, great clothing, etc. Drink a little but prior not too much. I personally like showing up when its packed at like 11-12, no worry about being by yourself since its hard to notice when there are 500 people around also this time girls are gonna be easy to open.
 

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Febreze said:
whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
"Hi!"

It's all about delivery, confidence, their first impression of you in those initial seconds.
 

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It helps if you are actually dancing, as that what people usually go to the club for. Go out there on the floor and dance up to a girl make eye contact, say hello whatever.
 

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I don't go to clubs if I go out alone, bars are vastly superior. I feel this because at a club girls rarely ever go in a group smaller than four and the superficialness of them is at an all time high. Also the music in a club is f'ing loud its real hard to talk period. However, my advice to you would be look GOOD, great clothing, etc. Drink a little but prior not too much. I personally like showing up when its packed at like 11-12, no worry about being by yourself since its hard to notice when there are 500 people around also this time girls are gonna be easy to open.
Bars are definitely better considering the cloud is just so damn loud and you can't hear a damn thing.

"Hi!"

It's all about delivery, confidence, their first impression of you in those initial seconds.
Absolutely. Gotta be a bit higher energy though since its a club.


It helps if you are actually dancing, as that what people usually go to the club for. Go out there on the floor and dance up to a girl make eye contact, say hello whatever.
Another good thing to try is to take her hand, even if she's not looking and pull her toward you. high risk, high reward :)

Febreze said:
whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
Here are some openers i love

"You are sexy as fvck and i'm going to meet you"
"There is no way in hell i'm gonna miss this opportunity"
"Hi!!!!"
"I've made up my mind, I choose you! your my girlfriend tonight!"
"Your cute, lets talk :)"

Remember if your going to use these, BE DOMINANT and take in the DIRECT frame of mind. When you see her, turn her toward you. If she's dancing, pull her toward you :).

Try it!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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