"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to open girls solo at a club?

Febreze

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whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nmartinez12443

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Hey

I don't go to clubs if I go out alone, bars are vastly superior. I feel this because at a club girls rarely ever go in a group smaller than four and the superficialness of them is at an all time high. Also the music in a club is f'ing loud its real hard to talk period. However, my advice to you would be look GOOD, great clothing, etc. Drink a little but prior not too much. I personally like showing up when its packed at like 11-12, no worry about being by yourself since its hard to notice when there are 500 people around also this time girls are gonna be easy to open.
 

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Febreze said:
whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
"Hi!"

It's all about delivery, confidence, their first impression of you in those initial seconds.
 

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It helps if you are actually dancing, as that what people usually go to the club for. Go out there on the floor and dance up to a girl make eye contact, say hello whatever.
 

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I don't go to clubs if I go out alone, bars are vastly superior. I feel this because at a club girls rarely ever go in a group smaller than four and the superficialness of them is at an all time high. Also the music in a club is f'ing loud its real hard to talk period. However, my advice to you would be look GOOD, great clothing, etc. Drink a little but prior not too much. I personally like showing up when its packed at like 11-12, no worry about being by yourself since its hard to notice when there are 500 people around also this time girls are gonna be easy to open.
Bars are definitely better considering the cloud is just so damn loud and you can't hear a damn thing.

"Hi!"

It's all about delivery, confidence, their first impression of you in those initial seconds.
Absolutely. Gotta be a bit higher energy though since its a club.


It helps if you are actually dancing, as that what people usually go to the club for. Go out there on the floor and dance up to a girl make eye contact, say hello whatever.
Another good thing to try is to take her hand, even if she's not looking and pull her toward you. high risk, high reward :)

Febreze said:
whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
Here are some openers i love

"You are sexy as fvck and i'm going to meet you"
"There is no way in hell i'm gonna miss this opportunity"
"Hi!!!!"
"I've made up my mind, I choose you! your my girlfriend tonight!"
"Your cute, lets talk :)"

Remember if your going to use these, BE DOMINANT and take in the DIRECT frame of mind. When you see her, turn her toward you. If she's dancing, pull her toward you :).

Try it!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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