"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how to open girls solo at a club?

Febreze

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whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nmartinez12443

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Hey

I don't go to clubs if I go out alone, bars are vastly superior. I feel this because at a club girls rarely ever go in a group smaller than four and the superficialness of them is at an all time high. Also the music in a club is f'ing loud its real hard to talk period. However, my advice to you would be look GOOD, great clothing, etc. Drink a little but prior not too much. I personally like showing up when its packed at like 11-12, no worry about being by yourself since its hard to notice when there are 500 people around also this time girls are gonna be easy to open.
 

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Febreze said:
whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
"Hi!"

It's all about delivery, confidence, their first impression of you in those initial seconds.
 

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It helps if you are actually dancing, as that what people usually go to the club for. Go out there on the floor and dance up to a girl make eye contact, say hello whatever.
 

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I don't go to clubs if I go out alone, bars are vastly superior. I feel this because at a club girls rarely ever go in a group smaller than four and the superficialness of them is at an all time high. Also the music in a club is f'ing loud its real hard to talk period. However, my advice to you would be look GOOD, great clothing, etc. Drink a little but prior not too much. I personally like showing up when its packed at like 11-12, no worry about being by yourself since its hard to notice when there are 500 people around also this time girls are gonna be easy to open.
Bars are definitely better considering the cloud is just so damn loud and you can't hear a damn thing.

"Hi!"

It's all about delivery, confidence, their first impression of you in those initial seconds.
Absolutely. Gotta be a bit higher energy though since its a club.


It helps if you are actually dancing, as that what people usually go to the club for. Go out there on the floor and dance up to a girl make eye contact, say hello whatever.
Another good thing to try is to take her hand, even if she's not looking and pull her toward you. high risk, high reward :)

Febreze said:
whats a good opener for opening groups of girls when you are alone at a club? or opening single girls? eithier. need help asap am leaving soon.
Here are some openers i love

"You are sexy as fvck and i'm going to meet you"
"There is no way in hell i'm gonna miss this opportunity"
"Hi!!!!"
"I've made up my mind, I choose you! your my girlfriend tonight!"
"Your cute, lets talk :)"

Remember if your going to use these, BE DOMINANT and take in the DIRECT frame of mind. When you see her, turn her toward you. If she's dancing, pull her toward you :).

Try it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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