"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to number close in a group?

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I failed to number close tonight. Maybe I was AFC, maybe I wimped out, I don't know.

Situation: there's a girl I like and who I think kind of likes me (no bad signals, but I don't really know her well so I'm not sure if the good signals are just directed at me or that's how she is with everyone)

We were at a dinner with a ton of other people. I came late and was not sitting anywhere near her. As we were leaving, I talked to her briefly but never when others weren't around.

In this situation, when/how is a good way to get the number?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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All depends on the situation.

Do you know the group? If not then you should ask consent of the friend. You know the friend and the target will be talking about you after you leave, it is better to be treated as a "nice guy" by the friend, then an assh0le. Girls take their friends' opinion as GOSPEL.

If you are friends with the group, then there is no problem in getting her number in the group. No one will c0ckblock you.

However, like the above poster said, it is best to isolate first as there will be less ASD to deal with.
 
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I know the group - so wait, I should ask her friend's opinion first? Her friend is also a friend of mine and likes me (not in a sexual way, but we're friends).

Her friend that is my friend is a girl and is married, btw. I think they probably talk a lot about guys and stuff.
 
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