Dante420
Master Don Juan
1. Don't make yourself too available.
2. Don't have girl talk with her
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How to Not Get Friend Zoned (Avoid LJBF)
- Thread starter Dante420
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you want to know the real secret to not get LBFed? make yourself physically attractive to her. its really that simple. think of it this way, when a fat chick with no redeeming physical qualities tries to woo u with her personality and charm, how does that work? answer is it doesnt, no matter how funny she is, or intelligent, you do not see yourelf sexually compatible... what can u do about it? hit the gym, wear stylish clothing, take care of your appearance. looks is what gets you in the door, personality is what keeps her. and you have to accept not every girl is going to find you attractive, it is a numbers game.
doctorj
Don Juan
3. Prevent one-itis by having abundance mentality, and actually spinning lots of plates at the same time
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
4. Make it known you are a sexual being, and you have many options.
5. Make it known you will drop her if she ever gives you that line. The only female friends you have are the ones you personally choose.
5. Make it known you will drop her if she ever gives you that line. The only female friends you have are the ones you personally choose.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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dont be her emotional tampon.
Dont be afraid to be sexual around her
Have an abundance mentality... your the catch
Show her that you find her attractive with your actions
Almost never talk to her when your feeling AFC or in a bad mood
Be indifferent, and dont be afraid to kino and escalate
Tease her and have fun... be adventurous, show her that your an experience
Dont be afraid to be sexual around her
Have an abundance mentality... your the catch
Show her that you find her attractive with your actions
Almost never talk to her when your feeling AFC or in a bad mood
Be indifferent, and dont be afraid to kino and escalate
Tease her and have fun... be adventurous, show her that your an experience
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Of course! Personality never gets you in the door.jlr12584 said:
I'm working on getting my money right!