Dante420
Master Don Juan
1. Don't make yourself too available.
2. Don't have girl talk with her
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2. Don't have girl talk with her
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How to Not Get Friend Zoned (Avoid LJBF)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
you want to know the real secret to not get LBFed? make yourself physically attractive to her. its really that simple. think of it this way, when a fat chick with no redeeming physical qualities tries to woo u with her personality and charm, how does that work? answer is it doesnt, no matter how funny she is, or intelligent, you do not see yourelf sexually compatible... what can u do about it? hit the gym, wear stylish clothing, take care of your appearance. looks is what gets you in the door, personality is what keeps her. and you have to accept not every girl is going to find you attractive, it is a numbers game.
doctorj
Don Juan
3. Prevent one-itis by having abundance mentality, and actually spinning lots of plates at the same time
Hughman
Senior Don Juan
4. Make it known you are a sexual being, and you have many options.
5. Make it known you will drop her if she ever gives you that line. The only female friends you have are the ones you personally choose.
5. Make it known you will drop her if she ever gives you that line. The only female friends you have are the ones you personally choose.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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dont be her emotional tampon.
Dont be afraid to be sexual around her
Have an abundance mentality... your the catch
Show her that you find her attractive with your actions
Almost never talk to her when your feeling AFC or in a bad mood
Be indifferent, and dont be afraid to kino and escalate
Tease her and have fun... be adventurous, show her that your an experience
Dont be afraid to be sexual around her
Have an abundance mentality... your the catch
Show her that you find her attractive with your actions
Almost never talk to her when your feeling AFC or in a bad mood
Be indifferent, and dont be afraid to kino and escalate
Tease her and have fun... be adventurous, show her that your an experience
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Of course! Personality never gets you in the door.jlr12584 said:
I'm working on getting my money right!