"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to not come off as Creepy

we all eat food

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i apporach a girl at the mall yesterday who was a HB8.5 and I made little EC with her and I said hey and sat next to her, and she gave me this look like Get the **** away from you creep, and she walked up and left.

What the hell did I do wrong?
 

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girlsarecrazy

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Don't approach girls and put them on the spot like that unless you've made eye contact across the way or something.

Maybe you should have said something along the lines of, "Is this seat taken?"

That leaves a girl to say something creative like, "It's taken now, sit!"
 

Bvbidd

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Your probally ugly.

It's never creepy when your not ugly.
 

superchristx

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NOT true. I used to hear creepy all the time, now I never get it and if anything, I'm even uglier than I was. Creepy means not congruent, maybe you are trying to act confident but show small signs of insecurity. Or maybe you are acting really friendly and casual, but showing small signs of lust.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bvbidd

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No.. it's none of that.

I was right.

If she was attracted to you she'd enjoy the attention, if she's not then your creepy. Sorry but it's just the truth.

Mabye approach an uglier girl?
 

Bvbidd

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superchristx said:
acting really friendly and casual, but showing small signs of lust.
That's what your supposed to do. IF YOUR NOT UGLY.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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we all eat food said:
im not ugly, im 16 but i look like im 13.

^^ 13? WOW! anyone ever told you before that chiks like older men?? She tough you are some weird looking psicho visiting the school. Anyways, well drop thinking about her or any other chik that acts *****y. Some women are so weird, ohh so true so true!!! Next time dont sit near her like your a frikin statue, meet her, ask her questions, tell her few jokes, let her know ur interested...... Good luck
 

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Shydude, what possible reason would you have for wanting to let a girl know you're interested?

Have you learned anything the entire time you've been here?
 

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^^WDF!!! All i ment to say was let her know why u r there!! Couse if u just come there and sit by she will think WDF Does he want!! And this is High school MAN, You dont need to follow " pick up artist" routines! Just let her know why u r there.
 

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LMAO respect to Bvbidd! So blunt yet so true...

Anyways we all eat food, notice how Bvidd said "Your PROBABLY ugly" so don't take it TOO personally.

With so little detail and no video recording of the pickup, I think its impossible to determine what exactly went wrong.

But heres a little guess. Choose from the list:

a) You had the horny hunter vibe. Not good.
b) You were too forward. Too little eyecontact and interaction before you sat down.
c) She had PMS (80% chance on this one) or didn't feel like socializing.
d) You stink (as in smell-wise)

But those are just guesses ;)
 

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To "we all eat food"...yes it's true we do all eat food.

Anyway bro you couldv'e told her "Uhh I think your sitting on my seat so either you pay me $2 or pay me by having a deep and meaningful conversation with me."

Nah brother just take it easy eh, don't get down from the looks your getting because it's bound to change sooner or later.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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