How to not care about rejections

[marmel75]

That don't mean $hit. My best buddy is a salesman and he is very good at it. When i told him about cold approach pickup i thought he was going to kill it - he does cold approach sales all day long. But when it came to approaching women in bars he coulden't do it. Edventully he found his g/f from work. Good at sales don't always equate to good at pickup.

Well, I think you could use the same skill set you used to become good at cold approaching at work to become cold approaching women. The difference at this point is he cares too much about the outcome with women whereas he views sales as a "numbers game", ie, he knows if he approaches x amount of people he will get x amount of sales. As you become better at this, the number of people you talk to per sale becomes lower and lower. If he viewed women as a "numbers game", he'd likely have the same mindset as in sales, and the same improved ability of talking to X number of women per success.

 

[evan12]

All great reply's better of what I was expecting, I think I am too sensitive for what other think about me , now need to wear more thick skin for this job .

for some reason when I dont have any woman I takes the approche like a life or death matter even if I am not looking for any thing from that woman .