How to "next" a girl in a rude way

[sharpshooter]

Usually I just let them slide, and cut off all communication. However, this time I just feel the need to rub it in, get this girl pissed. So i've already made up my mind that I wanna tell her goodbye...in a nice but RUDE way haha.

I'm thinking of saying.."Well I guess it was great knowing you..until you transformed into a you know what, anyways goodbye!"

Should I just straight up say "b1tch" instead of "a you know what"?


any other suggestions.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
Usually I just let them slide, and cut off all communication. However, this time I just feel the need to rub it in, get this girl pissed. So i've already made up my mind that I wanna tell her goodbye...in a nice but RUDE way haha.

I'm thinking of saying.."Well I guess it was great knowing you..until you transformed into a you know what, anyways goodbye!"

Should I just straight up say "b1tch" instead of "a you know what"?


any other suggestions.

One thing I said to a girl I really disliked was "It was nice knowing you. Feel free to crawl under a rock and die." Sounds harsh, but she deserved it and more.

 

[sharpshooter]

Re: Re: How to "next" a girl in a rude way

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
One thing I said to a girl I really disliked was "It was nice knowing you. Feel free to crawl under a rock and die." Sounds harsh, but she deserved it and more.

wow..that's a little tooooooooooooo harsh haha.

 

[sapphire]

I think you are going about it all wrong. Trying to seek revenge on a girl by acting rude and childlike is only going to raise her ego and lower your status in her eyes because it suggests to her that she has gotten under your skin so to speak.

The best revenge is to show her that you are living well and leading a happy life in spite of her.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by sapphire
I think you are going about it all wrong. Trying to seek revenge on a girl by acting rude and childlike is only going to raise her ego and lower your status in her eyes because it suggests to her that she has gotten under your skin so to speak.

The best revenge is to show her that you are living well and leading a happy life in spite of her.

Well put. I couldn't agree more!

 

[Climax]

or mayyyyyyybe....

ya... By saying that u are letting her know that she "got to you", and she will probably try and mess your name with anyone possible.... rather just end it in a mutual manner and act as if u dont really give a sh!t about her, or the fact that she wont be in your life anymore, this will be more hurtfull to her (cause she will feel as if she was JUST an "object" to you.)

This way she has nothing bad to say about you, AND she ends up feeling like sh!t.

Just a thought

Laterz...

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

I agree. You don't want to be known as a rude ****... it will only hurt you in the future. So just suck it up this time.

 

[B9]

the way people on this board actually cultivate egocentricity never ceases to amaze me.

 

[crotchrocket]

Sharpshooter, to answer your first question; assuming you haven't told her off just yet, and assuming you can still employ the 'detachment tactic'.

This is what I did to one girl who was playing me, and she's still royally pi$$ed at me (so it's field tested and proven -trust me)

Take the 'detachment' tactic a little further. The detachment tactic; is where you give a girl tons of attention, feed her ego, make her feel like she's queen b of the whole frickin world, then you CUT HER OFF until she practically begs you for more of your attention (which she now misses desperately). Now instead of taking her back, you PERMANENTLY CUT HER OFF, and then chase, flirt, date... all the other girls you know (preferably in her presence) like you should be doing anyway-right!

This begs the question, is it worth all this effort? I say if it makes you feel better, then Yah it is!. As long as it doesn't distract you from the other, more important things in your life!

 

[sharpshooter]

the reason I wanna do this is because she's got the upper hand on me right now (hasn't returned an important call)

i don't wanna bow out like a puss, so i'm just gonna tell her straight up what I think of her and I'M gonna END this once and for all.

 

[prosemont]

I do not recommend that you end it badly ... you only look weak and you justify in her mind and everyone else's minds (like everyone she'll tell, among others) that she was correct in not being interested in you.

Having said that, the rudest thing I've ever heard said to break off with a woman was this:

"You're nothing but a semen receptacle."

 

[Ricky]

This is interesting because I feel the same way about the girl from "7 dates until I found her inner b i t c h"

The reason I want to ***** her out a bit is that I feel I was a bit apologetic for the things that set her off. I don't think my actions warranted such rude behavior on her part.

The detachment idea sounds great. I have no interest in dating this girl further, but using her as a psychological experiment to practice how to act if a girl I actually cared about alot did this could be useful.

I already have New Years plan with a new girl that I was more interested in anyways. But I want to feel like I left with the upper hand in this case.

 

[calvran]

Haha, this girl I know flaked on me this weekend and I ended up ****ing a hotter chick that night anyhow. She was at a party at my house this weekend.

Me : I wanted to thank you for flaking on me Friday.
Her : Are you being sarcastic?
Me : No, I'm being 100% serious for once in my life. Thank you, my night went much better because of it.
Her : I was wondering why you didn't call. Now you have to tell me what happened.
Me : I met a girl. We'll leave it at that.

Her reaction was priceless, and made my night.

 

[crotchrocket]

calvran, LOL!

I'm making a mental note of that right now, and will be using that, (whether it's the truth or not) the very next time a girl flakes on me.

I can just imagine the look on her face, priceless indeed!!

 

[00Kevin]

you can send her some black roses. just do a search on the net for them.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
Usually I just let them slide, and cut off all communication. However, this time I just feel the need to rub it in, get this girl pissed. So i've already made up my mind that I wanna tell her goodbye...in a nice but RUDE way haha.

I'm thinking of saying.."Well I guess it was great knowing you..until you transformed into a you know what, anyways goodbye!"

Should I just straight up say "b1tch" instead of "a you know what"?


any other suggestions.

Whoa, she really did a number on 'ya, didn't she?

 

[Jariel]

If I want to get back at a b1tch, I find a kind let down is the most insulting of all. I.e "You're a nice person, but not really my type. Hope there are no hard feelings" or "I'd rather we just be friends" or anything that implies that you are not physically attracted to her. The more polite and kind you word it, the more convincing it will sound and the more it will wound her ego.

 

[dadmonson]

Tell her she is startin to get chubby and that she has been lookin uglier and uglier everyday to u. And start flirten wit people she close too. I think that would get her good.

 

[Trance]

You guys are just too nice.

Some of my best friends just end like:

"**** you, you ****ing bitx, i'm sick and tired of you crazy bitx!!"


They just keep crawling back, and humilliating themselves.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Guys, the best way to get back at an ex is to let her see that you are not only surviving without her, you're doing better! Get in better shape and date a prettier woman. Just consider it as trading in your old model. It works every time.