“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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how to move onto heavy petting?

mystik

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im stuck and dont know what to do!
now im stuck on making out with the girl but dont know when or how to make a move for the next stage. Note that the girl is very conservative and also a virgin.
The IL is very high as she would place my hand on her legs when we watch a movie, but me being unsure has always avoided the controvertial area's.

advice?
 

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go gradually.... start by caressing up and down her arms, back, legs... eventually move on to the ass. If she becomes uncomfortable - you know you're already screwed. If she kinda likes it..... keep going...
gradual, very smoothly, and very softly.
 

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First of all you have to be ABSOLUTELY sure of yourself or she will be very uncomfortable. If your confident in your ways she will go along with anything.
 

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confidence is not a problem as my friends genearlly think im a little bit overconfident. however im concerned that by moving toward a stage the girl is not ready to reach i will jeoperdize our general happiness together.
but then gettin stuck on light petting is boring
 

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Just go into it nice and slow, and if she objects go back to light petting for a few minutes. After a while, try again, and if she objects slow it down again. Then try one more time after a lil while, and if she rejects the advance again, then something's wrong there.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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