"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How To move on

we all eat food

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My exgf broke up with me like 2 weeks ago for some other guy, and i still have feelings for her, and im having trouble moving on, its even harder when i see them kissing at school or holding hands
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mr_rogers

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we all eat food said:
My exgf broke up with me like 2 weeks ago for some other guy, and i still have feelings for her, and im having trouble moving on, its even harder when i see them kissing at school or holding hands
Dude, you need to value yourself higher. She broke up with you, right? That means that she initiated the breakup, which means that it's her god damn problem, and not yours. Obviously she doesn't seem to think that your good qualities are good enough for her, so she can go screw herself. One way to get over people is to do your best to meet new people, and to stay away from doing things and talking to people that remind you of the person that you're trying to get over.
 

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problem is that, my friends are friends with some of her friends, so should i get new friends or something?
 

Mr_rogers

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problem is that, my friends are friends with some of her friends, so should i get new friends or something?
You're going to let your ex force you out of your group of friends? I sure hope not.

Don't drop your friends just to get away from memories about her. It isn't worth it. I'd just do my best to look at other girls, and forget about her. In all likelyhood, her and this new guy will break up in a few weeks to a few months, and it'll all be over. This is High School. Don't take it too seriously.
 

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ya you are right, she shouldnt control my life or my thoughts, im a MAN im in control of my life, thanks for the help mr rogers.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mission

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Mr_rogers said:
This is High School. Don't take it too seriously.
Bingo

--Mission
 

Zerotwoonenine

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hey dude, my master DJ friend told me the best tip the other day, you know when you said you are friends with her friends?? pick the best looking girl from the group, start a relationship with her and when u get her hooked, kiss her in front of that girl, now we'll see results.
 

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Zerotwoonenine said:
hey dude, my master DJ friend told me the best tip the other day, you know when you said you are friends with her friends?? pick the best looking girl from the group, start a relationship with her and when u get her hooked, kiss her in front of that girl, now we'll see results.
Definately a sound plan. /end sarcasm

The man I quoted is part right however. The solution to forgetting about one chick is to get other chicks. If you can bring yourself to doing it...
 
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