You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dude, you need to value yourself higher. She broke up with you, right? That means that she initiated the breakup, which means that it's her god damn problem, and not yours. Obviously she doesn't seem to think that your good qualities are good enough for her, so she can go screw herself. One way to get over people is to do your best to meet new people, and to stay away from doing things and talking to people that remind you of the person that you're trying to get over.we all eat food said:My exgf broke up with me like 2 weeks ago for some other guy, and i still have feelings for her, and im having trouble moving on, its even harder when i see them kissing at school or holding hands
You're going to let your ex force you out of your group of friends? I sure hope not.we all eat food said:problem is that, my friends are friends with some of her friends, so should i get new friends or something?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BingoMr_rogers said:This is High School. Don't take it too seriously.
Definately a sound plan. /end sarcasmZerotwoonenine said:hey dude, my master DJ friend told me the best tip the other day, you know when you said you are friends with her friends?? pick the best looking girl from the group, start a relationship with her and when u get her hooked, kiss her in front of that girl, now we'll see results.