Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dude, you need to value yourself higher. She broke up with you, right? That means that she initiated the breakup, which means that it's her god damn problem, and not yours. Obviously she doesn't seem to think that your good qualities are good enough for her, so she can go screw herself. One way to get over people is to do your best to meet new people, and to stay away from doing things and talking to people that remind you of the person that you're trying to get over.we all eat food said:My exgf broke up with me like 2 weeks ago for some other guy, and i still have feelings for her, and im having trouble moving on, its even harder when i see them kissing at school or holding hands
You're going to let your ex force you out of your group of friends? I sure hope not.we all eat food said:problem is that, my friends are friends with some of her friends, so should i get new friends or something?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BingoMr_rogers said:This is High School. Don't take it too seriously.
Definately a sound plan. /end sarcasmZerotwoonenine said:hey dude, my master DJ friend told me the best tip the other day, you know when you said you are friends with her friends?? pick the best looking girl from the group, start a relationship with her and when u get her hooked, kiss her in front of that girl, now we'll see results.