“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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How to mentally become more masculine?

Demystify

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So I'm curious, what's the best way to mentally (NOT physically) become more masculine?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Same way as physically. It's a fact that the testosterone generated from working out consistently also has an effect on your psyche. You think growing stronger every day and pushing hundreds of pounds of weight doesn't affect the masculinity of your mind? You think something like cognitive masculinity can be gained through some easy shortcut? Go do some squats.
 

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I've been training consistently for over 3 years now, benches, squats, deadlifts and chin-ups are the core of my exercises.

Anyway, while changes I've notices, (along with the physical benefits) would be that I'm a lot more easy-going, able to handle stressful situations better, generally more cheerful. BUT, know i won't take sh1t for no reason.

It's weird though - in that it's actually harder to get a rise out of me these days.
 

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thecurtainfalls said:
You think growing stronger every day and pushing hundreds of pounds of weight doesn't affect the masculinity of your mind?
OMG, I knew the first response would involve lifting weights. I DO NOT look good muscular, I look way way worse, trust me. I lifted weights for three years and it made me look WAY more awkward than I previously looked. When I was muscular it didn't make me look like a masculine stud, it made me look like a nerd who lifted weights thinking it would actually get him laid. Plus the type of girls I like DO NOT like muscular guys.

I will agree that working out does make you more positive mentally, but I don't think it makes you masculine mentally.

So anyone else care to tell me some ways to become more masculine that DO NOT INVOLVE WORKING OUT?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Demystify said:
OMG, I knew the first response would involve lifting weights. I DO NOT look good muscular, I look way way worse, trust me. I lifted weights for three years and it made me look WAY more awkward than I previously looked. When I was muscular it didn't make me look like a masculine stud, it made me look like a nerd who lifted weights thinking it would actually get him laid. Plus the type of girls I like DO NOT like muscular guys.

I will agree that working out does make you more positive mentally, but I don't think it makes you masculine mentally.

So anyone else care to tell me some ways to become more masculine that DO NOT INVOLVE WORKING OUT?
Play a sport, especially a competitive team sport. I find competing with other players playing soccer really boosts my aggression/assertiveness and confidence off the playing field.
 

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Demystify said:
I'm actually going to be doing that soon. Any advice?
Where are you going? I am hoping to go to China to do this early next year.
 
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