Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I met a friend of my friends who married this woman in Everquest, then moved from Cali to Florida to marry her in real life. He was 19 she was about mid 30's.Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Funny, I've also heard of people 'marrying' two Everquest characters. If I was playing the game, and came across a freakin' wedding, I'd start hacking away at the bride... or the groom, whichever is uglier.
lol
Originally posted by Lost In Translation
MODs can you move this to anything else please![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hahaha yeah I agree with that!Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
...when ever i hear someone i know talking aobut RPG's im like "WHAT!! you have a rocket propeled grenade?!?! what the fcuk you doing with that!"![]()
yeah defintly, then you get those who are so 'into' the game that if you ask them what they have been up to they start describing the things going on in the game, asuming you understand they are talking aobut the game!Originally posted by cant think of a user name
Whenever I hear some guys talk about stuff like that in public (eg. "I destroyed his kingdom and stole his money" or "I killed him last night then took his castle"), it just sounds bizarre. Especially if a police officer is nearby.