"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to meet more girls

S.Y.L

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There is always really hot girls at my school who I have never had a class with and are like a year or two younger than me. I have no idea how to get to know em or anything, I am good when it comes to people I know, but how do I get to talk to em. The term "creeper" is thrown around lots too, so its not like you can cold approach em.


WTF do you do, if you have no mutual friends, or classes at all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jeffthechef

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You approach them anyways.

Creeper is a **** term girls use randomly. I heard it just today used horribly. You'll only be LABELED a creeper if you approach in a creepy way, i.e. with little confidence and an AFC/inferior mindset. Basically, if you approach her online, like a person who thinks he's below her, etc she'll think you're a creep.

If you demonstrate confidence and "Alpha-ness"/Masculinity, she won't think you're a creeper. BUT, if she does reject your number approach (I assume, you're trying to number close), then she may still call you a creeper to her friends, even though she doesn't think so.


Who gives a **** if they label you? Most HS girls are immature. Don't play society's game. Just do it.
 

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Ah, ill be random as ****, and give random girls in the hall high 5s and stuff, if they laugh, then its good.
 

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jeffthechef said:
hah..idk about htat...high fiving randomly isn't necessary

if you're interested ina girl that you dn't know...just approach her..number close..nothing fancy or elaborate..keep it simple
Yes it is, I tried it on these 2 girls I had NO clue who they were, and now they talk to me every day and stuff.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

eaglez1177

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Jeff hit the nail on head
 

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that your new thing eaglez?
 

S.Y.L

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jeffthechef said:
it's not ****ing necessary

and

IF YOU ****ING TRIED SOMETHING LIKE THIS ALREADY, WHY ARE YOU ****ING ASKING?

and

it depends on the girls...

and

I assume you have an actual question when you create a thread. If you don't, don't post.

and

I don't like that attitude. :nono:
because im ****ing retarded, and my brain doesnt work very well.
 
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