"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to meet more girls

S.Y.L

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There is always really hot girls at my school who I have never had a class with and are like a year or two younger than me. I have no idea how to get to know em or anything, I am good when it comes to people I know, but how do I get to talk to em. The term "creeper" is thrown around lots too, so its not like you can cold approach em.


WTF do you do, if you have no mutual friends, or classes at all.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jeffthechef

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You approach them anyways.

Creeper is a **** term girls use randomly. I heard it just today used horribly. You'll only be LABELED a creeper if you approach in a creepy way, i.e. with little confidence and an AFC/inferior mindset. Basically, if you approach her online, like a person who thinks he's below her, etc she'll think you're a creep.

If you demonstrate confidence and "Alpha-ness"/Masculinity, she won't think you're a creeper. BUT, if she does reject your number approach (I assume, you're trying to number close), then she may still call you a creeper to her friends, even though she doesn't think so.


Who gives a **** if they label you? Most HS girls are immature. Don't play society's game. Just do it.
 

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Ah, ill be random as ****, and give random girls in the hall high 5s and stuff, if they laugh, then its good.
 

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jeffthechef said:
hah..idk about htat...high fiving randomly isn't necessary

if you're interested ina girl that you dn't know...just approach her..number close..nothing fancy or elaborate..keep it simple
Yes it is, I tried it on these 2 girls I had NO clue who they were, and now they talk to me every day and stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jeff hit the nail on head
 

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that your new thing eaglez?
 

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jeffthechef said:
it's not ****ing necessary

and

IF YOU ****ING TRIED SOMETHING LIKE THIS ALREADY, WHY ARE YOU ****ING ASKING?

and

it depends on the girls...

and

I assume you have an actual question when you create a thread. If you don't, don't post.

and

I don't like that attitude. :nono:
because im ****ing retarded, and my brain doesnt work very well.
 
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