"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to meet a girl you don't know?

TheDogg

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Ah yes, I'm finally in my senior year of high school. I've had about 2 or 3 girlfriends, none very steady or long lasting. I have pretty much gone through all the girls I've had interest in that are also seniors. I'm out of any more options in my own grade.

So here's my dilemma: I have found a good looking junior who's not too loud, doesn't seem to be a [female dog], and who I believe is single---I would give her an 8 on "the scale"---perfect for me. But what is the problem? Being a senior, I naturally have zero classes with her, and I have no way of getting to know her--that includes meeting her in a loose setting.
How do I do it? You never know what can happen after getting started.

So please, give me some suggestions, because not only is this the first time I've been in a situation like this, but I'm not the best at meeting new girls.

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Inquire

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im not the best at it, but make sure u have eye contact.
 

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Say Hi, EC and chat her up. If she's a new junior, she could be shy, I've seen that before. Other then that, just keep proding until you can ask her out/get the number/etc.

At least that's what I'd do. I'm no DJ. ^^
 

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I've got a simular situation with this HB8 on the bus ride from my home school to our tech school. But shes always surrounded by other guys. I've noticed her glancing at me but how should make a move since I never see her alone?
 

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isolate!! ^^

I hate working around other guys, because they'll know instantly if you're hitting her up, and if they are her friends, you'd be ****ed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Docs
isolate!! ^^

I hate working around other guys, because they'll know instantly if you're hitting her up, and if they are her friends, you'd be ****ed.
damn, i hella agree.... timing is everything.. but the problem is you can't be focused with that one girl only.... look around you... there are other opportunities...

im not saying forget about your target but dont try so hard trying to isolate her.. its best to leave it alone and move on until maybe there is an opportunity.. dont waste your time with one...
 

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i dont like stalkers
i no your problem to well , but this is for me what has had the most results.


Eye contact every time you see her, if she keeps eye contact smile after u make eye contact.(u probly no that) then after you have made eye contact a few times go up to her preferably when shes alone , and talk to her about how you have seen her around the campus and you think she whould be a fun girl to get to know. invite her to go to lunch with you , to the next dance, football game, what ever you do at your school. how ever since you never have a "loose" setting try talking to here when she only has a few friends around, like at her locker or walking to class, so that you feel more confortable its not IDEAL but its ALOT better than when shes at her table with a whole group of people. :nervous:

good luck man :up:
 

TheDogg

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Thanks guys,
Once i give her some realization that i'm a person that wants to interact with her (through eye contact/approachability), I'll see if i can get her alone and tell her that i'd liek to get to know her better.
Maybe by the end of next week i'll be successful.
 
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