"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to meet a girl you don't know?

TheDogg

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Ah yes, I'm finally in my senior year of high school. I've had about 2 or 3 girlfriends, none very steady or long lasting. I have pretty much gone through all the girls I've had interest in that are also seniors. I'm out of any more options in my own grade.

So here's my dilemma: I have found a good looking junior who's not too loud, doesn't seem to be a [female dog], and who I believe is single---I would give her an 8 on "the scale"---perfect for me. But what is the problem? Being a senior, I naturally have zero classes with her, and I have no way of getting to know her--that includes meeting her in a loose setting.
How do I do it? You never know what can happen after getting started.

So please, give me some suggestions, because not only is this the first time I've been in a situation like this, but I'm not the best at meeting new girls.

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Inquire

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im not the best at it, but make sure u have eye contact.
 

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Say Hi, EC and chat her up. If she's a new junior, she could be shy, I've seen that before. Other then that, just keep proding until you can ask her out/get the number/etc.

At least that's what I'd do. I'm no DJ. ^^
 

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I've got a simular situation with this HB8 on the bus ride from my home school to our tech school. But shes always surrounded by other guys. I've noticed her glancing at me but how should make a move since I never see her alone?
 

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isolate!! ^^

I hate working around other guys, because they'll know instantly if you're hitting her up, and if they are her friends, you'd be ****ed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Docs
isolate!! ^^

I hate working around other guys, because they'll know instantly if you're hitting her up, and if they are her friends, you'd be ****ed.
damn, i hella agree.... timing is everything.. but the problem is you can't be focused with that one girl only.... look around you... there are other opportunities...

im not saying forget about your target but dont try so hard trying to isolate her.. its best to leave it alone and move on until maybe there is an opportunity.. dont waste your time with one...
 

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i no your problem to well , but this is for me what has had the most results.


Eye contact every time you see her, if she keeps eye contact smile after u make eye contact.(u probly no that) then after you have made eye contact a few times go up to her preferably when shes alone , and talk to her about how you have seen her around the campus and you think she whould be a fun girl to get to know. invite her to go to lunch with you , to the next dance, football game, what ever you do at your school. how ever since you never have a "loose" setting try talking to here when she only has a few friends around, like at her locker or walking to class, so that you feel more confortable its not IDEAL but its ALOT better than when shes at her table with a whole group of people. :nervous:

good luck man :up:
 

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Thanks guys,
Once i give her some realization that i'm a person that wants to interact with her (through eye contact/approachability), I'll see if i can get her alone and tell her that i'd liek to get to know her better.
Maybe by the end of next week i'll be successful.
 
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