"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skilla_Staz

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I'm not a massage therapist and a couple months ago I had like 3 or 4 girls waiting in line for neck/back/shoulder massages. Now this girl coming over tomorrow is more or less begging me for one. If you want to get some advice, the internet is amazing. The main thing is to be firm and maintain contact, yet not overly assertive. Figure out how hard you should go by massaging your own trap (muscle by the neck on top of your back) with the opposite hand. If it hurts, don't massage so hard. Once you get it down, you'll begin to automatically know how "hard" to massage.

Also, don't stay in the same spot or keep the same motion going continuously. Mix it up a little bit. Changes things up and keeps the pleasure going without getting redundant.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

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