How to make women to be respectuful of the interaction

[Grifonculo]

After six years in a relationship, I'm getting back into the dating scene. It seems like women have changed over the years—or at least that's my impression.


I remember that women used to be more polite, kind, and even gentle. Now that I'm dating again and approaching women, I find myself dealing with individuals who come across as entitled and narcissistic: “I want this, I want that, this is how you should be.”


Since I’m not someone who easily tolerates that kind of attitude, I find this behavior really off-putting. When I encounter it, I just walk away from the interaction.


At first, I thought I was just having bad luck. But the more I got into the dating mindset, the more I came across this kind of behavior.


Finding a gentle, feminine, and polite woman seems to be increasingly rare.


So my question is: how can we encourage entitled women to behave in a more polite and respectful way?

 

[BaronOfHair]

It seems like women have changed over the years—or at least that's my impression.

Location is key... Whereabouts are you picking up these broads?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

"make" someone be respectful?

You don't.

You simply walk away if they aren't.

 

[Gamisch]

It's like getting back on the job market after being cuddled by having a steady job for years.

" not me, I'm above those peasants who fight for a job". Or the familiar " if I would be one of them and I would need a new one imma ...."

Untill you are one of them..now you partake and know how tough it is to " find a new one" . Gone are the days we're you just show your resume and be settled by the end of the week..

There are 100 horny, desperate, and lonely men for every 10 great women...

 

[Grifonculo]

Location is key... Whereabouts are you picking up these broads?

First at the gym (women there tend to be the most entitled, but they have the best bodies), and then at the bar (I saw a mix of different women, but the sense of entitlement was pretty widespread). Also on the street with cold approach, one the street women seems to be better.

 

[BeExcellent]

Where are you and what culture?

 

[Grifonculo]

Where are you and what culture?

Italy

 

[BaronOfHair]

Italy

Good luck. You're going to need gallons of it

 

[plumber]

It's like getting back on the job market after being cuddled by having a steady job for years.

" not me, I'm above those peasants who fight for a job". Or the familiar " if I would be one of them and I would need a new one imma ...."

Untill you are one of them..now you partake and know how tough it is to " find a new one" . Gone are the days we're you just show your resume and be settled by the end of the week..

There are 100 horny, desperate, and lonely men for every 10 great women...

likewise, there are 100 horny, desperate, and lonely women for every 1 great man. not so many men are great, just like not so many women are great.

 

[Grifonculo]

Good luck. You're going to need gallons of it

I always saw italian women quite bad, they are super narcisistic and as..holes, in fact I most try with foreign women.

 

[Gamisch]

likewise, there are 100 horny, desperate, and lonely women for every 1 great man. not so many men are great, just like not so many women are great.

Absolutely. And those words should inspire.

But, the main difference between the sexes is that that one great woman will probably only be messing with one man( 3 if she's a real h0e)

That one great man can and will be messing with 30 women or more.

The latter can still be inspiring

 

[Solomon]

After six years in a relationship, I'm getting back into the dating scene. It seems like women have changed over the years—or at least that's my impression.


I remember that women used to be more polite, kind, and even gentle. Now that I'm dating again and approaching women, I find myself dealing with individuals who come across as entitled and narcissistic: “I want this, I want that, this is how you should be.”


Since I’m not someone who easily tolerates that kind of attitude, I find this behavior really off-putting. When I encounter it, I just walk away from the interaction.


At first, I thought I was just having bad luck. But the more I got into the dating mindset, the more I came across this kind of behavior.


Finding a gentle, feminine, and polite woman seems to be increasingly rare.


So my question is: how can we encourage entitled women to behave in a more polite and respectful way?

OP it's funny you mention this because the lack of feminity in modern women is truly disturbing. I have talked to or been on dates with women and they straight up sounded like a dude, kind-hearted, affectionate, you know a girly girl is becoming extremely rare. I remember I was on a date with a really cute blond back in 2010 who I was trying to talk to feminism about and she had no friggin clue. Fast forward and every other chick I meet is deep into feminism now or gender identity politics. It's truly scary how deeply women have been brainwashed, especially the young ones.

Femineine women do feminine things they are at trader joes, high boutique stores, fancy house parties etc. They do exist but one thing I've learned is you gotta level up to find them where I live it is what it is

 

[SW15]

the lack of feminity in modern women is truly disturbing. I remember I was on a date with a really cute blond back in 2010 who I was trying to talk to feminism about and she had no friggin clue. Fast forward and every other chick I meet is deep into feminism now or gender identity politics. It's truly scary how deeply women have been brainwashed, especially the young ones.

Women into feminist thought are not traditionally feminine in any way.

In 2010, feminism was far from a new concept. Second Wave Feminism emerged in the early 1960s. Betty Friedan's "Feminine Mystique" was published in the early 1960s. The 1960s is when Gloria Steinem started gaining recognition.

I could have gone on plenty of dates in 2010 with women who were well versed in feminism.

That said, there is more of an emphasis upon that stuff now than in the 2000s. Political ideology has found its way into more common conversations than it did 15-20 years ago.

 

[Solomon]

Women into feminist thought are not traditionally feminine in any way.

The problem is back in 2010s when you thought of a feminist, you thought of a fat chick with a metal ring in her nose. That was the stereotype in the early to mid 2010s in 2025 I don't think it's true anymore
Now a feminist can be that smokeshow blonde in a ****tail dress but there is a caveat!

Women today utilize both traditionalism and feminism as dual mating strategy not all but the cunning ones For example, you take a girl out to eat, she expects you to be a gentleman and pay, but then on a future date you ask her to cook and she won't do it. I've actually had this happen dating a self-proclaimed feminist, she had no issues me taking her out to eat but when the tables turned, it was a 30 minute lecture o patriacty and females being oppressed Needless to say it didn't last long even though she had a nice ass. I have never had moe women ask me if I can cook then in the last 5 years to me it's become a yellow flag because usually the women that asked don't cook or they flat out will say they refuse too.

The thing is, SOME women feign femininity now in the west The problem is that most women are so bad at it they don't even know how to do that right, hence female dating coaches like "Thewizardliz" and "Sheraseven1" have exploded with followers in the last 5 years or so

 

[SW15]

Needless to say it didn't last long even though she had a nice ass.

I'm not putting up with a feminism lecture for a nice ass. Good choice on your part!

The problem is back in 2010s when you thought of a feminist, you thought of a fat chick with a metal ring in her nose. That was the stereotype in the early to mid 2010s in 2025 I don't think it's true anymore

The goalposts have moved on feminism over the years. A 1980s-1990s born woman who doesn't identify with feminism at all holds beliefs that likely would have made her at least a somewhat radical feminist by the standards of 1965.