"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to make women feel protected and safe!?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Scars
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But you don't need something extreme like that to happen either. There's little things you can do. While crossing the street hold her hand. She will remember little stuff like that. Warn her about certain dangers. "Hey babe, look out for that car" etc.. be the prime decision maker also. She might even test you once in awhile. If you feel something is unsafe, then don't let her do it obviously. Sacrificing can help too, without being beta about it. For instance, you're on a hiking trip and you're both low on water, she looks beat and is about to pass out, give her the last of yours etc..
I wouldn't really worry so much about this too much unless you're really serious, married, or have kids. Having a kid will allow you much more opportunities for this, as she will be paying more attention on how you act and protect the kids rather than her.
-Scars
when you act weird due to low confidence it makes them feel anxiety or 'less secure' and then they dump you.
so in short, be confident, pass sh!t tests with ease and they feel safe and secure.
and if you're wondering about feeling protected from muggers and robbers because you have some huge muscles or mma skills, forget about all that, its overrated and meaningless in this day and age.
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The reason girls like tall guys is because the height makes the girl feel safe, so yeah.Cassify said:
A lot of bouncers that I see are not even muscular, just tall and fat and a part their job is to intimidate, I even saw a lanky one once lol
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Yeah I'll agree with this.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I'm 5'8" (shorter than a lot of guys) and have not been in a fight in over 10 years. If someone looks like they want to start trouble with me, I glare at them and that always diffuses it right there. It's not about you being able to mess somebody up, it's about you making the other dude think you can mess him up.
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Then the picture of the rifle, thats a great line ,the guys from the marketing department at the NRA would love me.
Now seriously the one with which I agree the most is st_99, girls are different than us, we feel safe when the ammo box at home is full and our safe is full of gold, they feel safe mostly on a emotional level which is directly proportional to your self-confidence and aura.
A poor scumbag who show self confidence in his stupidity and helplessness makes his girl feel more safe than a white collar with a good job and a fat insurance who constantly ask her if she think that particular idea is good or bad.