"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to make the time to do what you want and improve yourself

Captain

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Over the years I've heard a lot of men complain "I don't have time to go to the gym" or do something similar. In the meantime, they find the time to spend 2 hours per day watching TV.

If you can't find the time to work out, obviously you don't the time to watch TV. Or play video games. Or sit on your ass and do nothing. Or post on SoSuave.

What's that? You are playing video games? And watching TV? There's nothing wrong with doing that stuff on its own, but it IS a problem when it is preventing you from improving yourself like you want.

Need to make more time to do stuff? Do it before you waste time doing something self indulgent like watching TV. Take a shorter shower. Wake up 30 minutes earlier. It's not hard to find a little time.

99% of the time when somebody says "I don't have time to do that", they actually mean "I can't be bothered to make an effort to do that because I'm lazy and would rather jerk off in my comfort zone".

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ThreeStorms

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Most of the things I would like to do but do not find time for involve being creative on the PC. My problem is that all those wonderful sites steal away precious geek time. I simply cannot seperate productive and non-productive hours in front of this machine.
 
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