"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how to make the perfect party

sbgm

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Hi there folks, I'm a high-schooler and I am going to have a party in a park in my town. Maybe do some BBQing and stuff. But I've never had a party and the reason that me an some friends are holding this party is so I can get to know more guys an guls at school and get more popular :p

I need the perfect ingredients to make a good party. Do you have any experiences of that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wyldfire

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Having a barbecue is a good idea. Volleyball, whiffle-ball, frisbee, horseshoes, music...all fun at park barbecues. You will need people to help you organize this and chip in with the cost. For food...hot dogs, hamburgers, chicken, potato salad, pasta salad, chips, soda, marshmallows, salad...the usual.

The best bet would be to make it a "pot luck" barbecue...everyone bring something like soda, chips, salad, cups, plates...etc and have people bring their own meat (burgers, hot dogs, chicken, steak...whatever they want to eat)...otherwise it will cost you a fortune unless you do some fundraising and get lots of help.
 

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The best parties are always in Mexico. The beer and the women are cheap as hell.:up:
 

Rata Blanca

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Specially if you have dollars xD
 

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party only depends on your pocket...
no matter where you want every thing is possible at every place...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sbgm

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was thinkin about a big party outdoors in the park. The park consists of a football pitch and a barbecue. Let's say I want to make a party that people will talk about for a year. What do I need then? :p
 
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