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Ok, so i can joke around with kids in school, but outside no one calls me or IM's me without me actually doing it. So how do i get people to do that to me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How to make people wanna hang out with you
- Thread starter we all eat food
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
confuseid
Don Juan
No **** dude, it's quite obvious, but there's no need to bag on them. Just because none of them are as cool as me, doesn't mean they don't have the potential. Dude if you want people to hang out with you? Here's the key: Don't TRY to get their attention. People HATE that. Just be cool, do your own thing and stop worrying about what others think. Let them come to you. I know you hate to hear that and you want a solution that will work just THIs instant, but that's not realistic. Just take steps to not being a shy, nerdy, geeky, loser. Get contacts if you have glasses, Get PROactiv if you have acne, work out if you have no body, improve your social skills...there's no reason to be scared of other people no matter how they treat you. If the guys are *******s, well then...why are they worth your time? If the girls are snobbish, well then, they're girls anyways and take a slightly sexist view on things and say, they aren't worth me anyways. Just remember that if you work on your game, soon enough they'll be the ones yearning for YOUR attention. But remember that game isn't the only key factor here, it's YOU, and your personality. Be yourself, but restrict that geeky side of you nobody likes. Don't search for their approval, make them search for yours. Remember: ****y Funny personality. Just don't go overboard with the ****y or it's annoying.
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Smooth Player 056
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The way to get people to hang with you is to be cool.
I notice the guys with the littlest amount of respect from their peers do the following: They say things that arent respectable.
Let me stress this again: DO NOT SAY SH*T THAT IS NOT RESPECTABLE......If every thing that comes out of your mouth is respectable....YOU will be respeced.
Some guys not only suplicate to women, but also to men. They try too hard to be accepted witch in return fails them. A lot of theorys in seduction, actually can be turned around to be made usefull in the art of making friends.
Join a club....in a club you will have a common subject to talk about which is much easier than flying a convo somewhere else.....also joing a sport will do also, because of the commonalites.
~Smooth
I notice the guys with the littlest amount of respect from their peers do the following: They say things that arent respectable.
Let me stress this again: DO NOT SAY SH*T THAT IS NOT RESPECTABLE......If every thing that comes out of your mouth is respectable....YOU will be respeced.
Some guys not only suplicate to women, but also to men. They try too hard to be accepted witch in return fails them. A lot of theorys in seduction, actually can be turned around to be made usefull in the art of making friends.
Join a club....in a club you will have a common subject to talk about which is much easier than flying a convo somewhere else.....also joing a sport will do also, because of the commonalites.
~Smooth
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Senior Don Juan
Dude... this is so right.Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
The way to get people to hang with you is to be cool.
I notice the guys with the littlest amount of respect from their peers do the following: They say things that arent respectable.
Let me stress this again: DO NOT SAY SH*T THAT IS NOT RESPECTABLE......If every thing that comes out of your mouth is respectable....YOU will be respeced.
~Smooth
If you want people to hang with you then be more funny exciting to them (without acting like an idi0t)
Be Alpha... altho i have a body... i cant fight with many of the people in my school cuz they're bigger. So if someone disrespects you.. then you have to be quick on your feet to diss'em back (but not so far that youll get into a fight)
But in general.. respect others and they'll respect you.
Also.. be exciting and fun to hang with for one week. Then withdraw from someone... this is how you get women to chase you. And same with friends. Be funny watch some comedy... make lots of friends, itll all help out int he end.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dark Chaos
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If you want people to hang out with you, poke them in the eye with your massive erection.