How to make people wanna hang out with you

[we all eat food]

Ok, so i can joke around with kids in school, but outside no one calls me or IM's me without me actually doing it. So how do i get people to do that to me.

 

[DaKidS3]

Is it just me or do 90% of the people on these forums have no life?

Every post, "so I have no friends", or "I'm 19, and have never talked to a girl".

 

[confuseid]

No **** dude, it's quite obvious, but there's no need to bag on them. Just because none of them are as cool as me, doesn't mean they don't have the potential. Dude if you want people to hang out with you? Here's the key: Don't TRY to get their attention. People HATE that. Just be cool, do your own thing and stop worrying about what others think. Let them come to you. I know you hate to hear that and you want a solution that will work just THIs instant, but that's not realistic. Just take steps to not being a shy, nerdy, geeky, loser. Get contacts if you have glasses, Get PROactiv if you have acne, work out if you have no body, improve your social skills...there's no reason to be scared of other people no matter how they treat you. If the guys are *******s, well then...why are they worth your time? If the girls are snobbish, well then, they're girls anyways and take a slightly sexist view on things and say, they aren't worth me anyways. Just remember that if you work on your game, soon enough they'll be the ones yearning for YOUR attention. But remember that game isn't the only key factor here, it's YOU, and your personality. Be yourself, but restrict that geeky side of you nobody likes. Don't search for their approval, make them search for yours. Remember: ****y Funny personality. Just don't go overboard with the ****y or it's annoying.
-Finesse

 

[Smooth Player 056]

The way to get people to hang with you is to be cool.

I notice the guys with the littlest amount of respect from their peers do the following: They say things that arent respectable.

Let me stress this again: DO NOT SAY SH*T THAT IS NOT RESPECTABLE......If every thing that comes out of your mouth is respectable....YOU will be respeced.

Some guys not only suplicate to women, but also to men. They try too hard to be accepted witch in return fails them. A lot of theorys in seduction, actually can be turned around to be made usefull in the art of making friends.

Join a club....in a club you will have a common subject to talk about which is much easier than flying a convo somewhere else.....also joing a sport will do also, because of the commonalites.

~Smooth

 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
The way to get people to hang with you is to be cool.

I notice the guys with the littlest amount of respect from their peers do the following: They say things that arent respectable.

Let me stress this again: DO NOT SAY SH*T THAT IS NOT RESPECTABLE......If every thing that comes out of your mouth is respectable....YOU will be respeced.

~Smooth

Dude... this is so right.

If you want people to hang with you then be more funny exciting to them (without acting like an idi0t)

Be Alpha... altho i have a body... i cant fight with many of the people in my school cuz they're bigger. So if someone disrespects you.. then you have to be quick on your feet to diss'em back (but not so far that youll get into a fight)

But in general.. respect others and they'll respect you.

Also.. be exciting and fun to hang with for one week. Then withdraw from someone... this is how you get women to chase you. And same with friends. Be funny watch some comedy... make lots of friends, itll all help out int he end.

 

[Dark Chaos]

If you want people to hang out with you, poke them in the eye with your massive erection.

 

[DJ4Real]

Just be cool. Be fun to be around.