"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to make myself more interesting

Key Mister

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I have a problem.... despite the fact that I'm trying really hard to enrich myself like joining clubs, playing music and doing various sports..... no one thinks that I'm interesting (despite the fact that I constantly tell myself that I'm an interesting person). I can see this when I enter a convo with a popular friends and his other friends and chics but as he left ( and I was trying to carry on the convo) they all left. Also most of the time, when my group of friends talk about something, I don't have much input to make, mainly due to the fact that I don't know what they're talking about ad often I get ignored. What should I do???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Damian

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Go to the link to Dimond Lounge, I'm actually in the process of making a guide about conversation skills that you could use. Considering what you've said, I think you might need it.
 

the pokemaster

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who says your not interesting????

the only persons saying that is yourself.

Thats the wrong thing to be saying to yourself. It will put you in the wrong mindframe and as soon as your in a group of kids that are popular and confident you'll immaediately slip into that mindframe and stay quiet. And not get your voice heard.

The thing to be saying to yourself is

I AM THE MOST INTERESTING PERSON I KNOW.

say it every night before bed and every morning before you get up and eat.

youll see changes rapidly.
 
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