There is this girl that I totally think is hot.I see her everyday in school,and she seems pretty cool.I always say I am going to say something to her but when the time comes I always freeze up what should I do and what should I say when I approach her.
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How to make my move
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Dont think... just go up to her!
1) start by introducing yourself (Name etc)
2) Tell her that she cought your eye and that u decided to come talk to her.
By now you should be able to tel if she is interested in you or not by her reations, answers, and body language. So if things are looking up continue to conversation by telling her a little about urself, then asking her a little about HERself.
3) DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! If you are shy, or blush, or stutter, or are insecure, she will see that and thats a big turnoff. ( To avoid having these feelings and being able to control it, go to a shopiing centre, and just start approaching random hot chicks, till eventually u will feel comfortable walking up to a chick and speaking to her.
4) Go to Sosuave and read everything on that site, that will also help u, and make sure that u read the bible as well. thats a MUST.
With practice, u will be able to approach any girl u want.
Laterz...
1) start by introducing yourself (Name etc)
2) Tell her that she cought your eye and that u decided to come talk to her.
By now you should be able to tel if she is interested in you or not by her reations, answers, and body language. So if things are looking up continue to conversation by telling her a little about urself, then asking her a little about HERself.
3) DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! If you are shy, or blush, or stutter, or are insecure, she will see that and thats a big turnoff. ( To avoid having these feelings and being able to control it, go to a shopiing centre, and just start approaching random hot chicks, till eventually u will feel comfortable walking up to a chick and speaking to her.
4) Go to Sosuave and read everything on that site, that will also help u, and make sure that u read the bible as well. thats a MUST.
With practice, u will be able to approach any girl u want.
Laterz...
i know all that ****
anyways i know the girl and she knows me but we havent talked in like 3 years since we were freshman and we sort of hang with different crowds i just dont know what to say to her to spark up a conversation
so can someone help me with that cuz i didnt see anything in the bible about this kind of stuff
anyways i know the girl and she knows me but we havent talked in like 3 years since we were freshman and we sort of hang with different crowds i just dont know what to say to her to spark up a conversation
so can someone help me with that cuz i didnt see anything in the bible about this kind of stuff
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i hate to say this, since i just said it in another thread, but this post is in dire need of a wake up call....
READ THE BLEEDING BIBLE!!!!!!!!!
READ THE BLEEDING BIBLE!!!!!!!!!
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
sorry man lots of pent up energy i needed to release 
just try to corner her somewhere and start up a convo. ask her what shes been up to lately, build some rapport with good ole fashion convo, then say something about hanging out and getting "re-aqwainted"
how the HELL do you spell that?
just try to corner her somewhere and start up a convo. ask her what shes been up to lately, build some rapport with good ole fashion convo, then say something about hanging out and getting "re-aqwainted"
how the HELL do you spell that?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
3 years and you aint spoken to her? Are you waiting for someones else to speak to her?
Something along the lines of "I haven't spoken to you in a while, what's up" should do fine. Stop overcomplicating everything. Say SOMETHING did end this 3 year thing
Something along the lines of "I haven't spoken to you in a while, what's up" should do fine. Stop overcomplicating everything. Say SOMETHING did end this 3 year thing
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anyways... here is a link that you can go to and read about what u should do in this kind of situation ---> What to say to her I hope this helps you... Goodluck.
its been 3 years since you have spoken to her, and you cant find anything to say to her?
anyways... here is a link that you can go to and read about what u should do in this kind of situation ---> What to say to her I hope this helps you... Goodluck.
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