There is this girl that I totally think is hot.I see her everyday in school,and she seems pretty cool.I always say I am going to say something to her but when the time comes I always freeze up what should I do and what should I say when I approach her.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How to make my move
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dont think... just go up to her!
1) start by introducing yourself (Name etc)
2) Tell her that she cought your eye and that u decided to come talk to her.
By now you should be able to tel if she is interested in you or not by her reations, answers, and body language. So if things are looking up continue to conversation by telling her a little about urself, then asking her a little about HERself.
3) DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! If you are shy, or blush, or stutter, or are insecure, she will see that and thats a big turnoff. ( To avoid having these feelings and being able to control it, go to a shopiing centre, and just start approaching random hot chicks, till eventually u will feel comfortable walking up to a chick and speaking to her.
4) Go to Sosuave and read everything on that site, that will also help u, and make sure that u read the bible as well. thats a MUST.
With practice, u will be able to approach any girl u want.
Laterz...
1) start by introducing yourself (Name etc)
2) Tell her that she cought your eye and that u decided to come talk to her.
By now you should be able to tel if she is interested in you or not by her reations, answers, and body language. So if things are looking up continue to conversation by telling her a little about urself, then asking her a little about HERself.
3) DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! If you are shy, or blush, or stutter, or are insecure, she will see that and thats a big turnoff. ( To avoid having these feelings and being able to control it, go to a shopiing centre, and just start approaching random hot chicks, till eventually u will feel comfortable walking up to a chick and speaking to her.
4) Go to Sosuave and read everything on that site, that will also help u, and make sure that u read the bible as well. thats a MUST.
With practice, u will be able to approach any girl u want.
Laterz...
i know all that ****
anyways i know the girl and she knows me but we havent talked in like 3 years since we were freshman and we sort of hang with different crowds i just dont know what to say to her to spark up a conversation
so can someone help me with that cuz i didnt see anything in the bible about this kind of stuff
anyways i know the girl and she knows me but we havent talked in like 3 years since we were freshman and we sort of hang with different crowds i just dont know what to say to her to spark up a conversation
so can someone help me with that cuz i didnt see anything in the bible about this kind of stuff
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i hate to say this, since i just said it in another thread, but this post is in dire need of a wake up call....
READ THE BLEEDING BIBLE!!!!!!!!!
READ THE BLEEDING BIBLE!!!!!!!!!
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
sorry man lots of pent up energy i needed to release 
just try to corner her somewhere and start up a convo. ask her what shes been up to lately, build some rapport with good ole fashion convo, then say something about hanging out and getting "re-aqwainted"
how the HELL do you spell that?
just try to corner her somewhere and start up a convo. ask her what shes been up to lately, build some rapport with good ole fashion convo, then say something about hanging out and getting "re-aqwainted"
how the HELL do you spell that?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
3 years and you aint spoken to her? Are you waiting for someones else to speak to her?
Something along the lines of "I haven't spoken to you in a while, what's up" should do fine. Stop overcomplicating everything. Say SOMETHING did end this 3 year thing
Something along the lines of "I haven't spoken to you in a while, what's up" should do fine. Stop overcomplicating everything. Say SOMETHING did end this 3 year thing
blah!
anyways... here is a link that you can go to and read about what u should do in this kind of situation ---> What to say to her I hope this helps you... Goodluck.
its been 3 years since you have spoken to her, and you cant find anything to say to her?
anyways... here is a link that you can go to and read about what u should do in this kind of situation ---> What to say to her I hope this helps you... Goodluck.
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