There is this girl that I totally think is hot.I see her everyday in school,and she seems pretty cool.I always say I am going to say something to her but when the time comes I always freeze up what should I do and what should I say when I approach her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to make my move
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dont think... just go up to her!
1) start by introducing yourself (Name etc)
2) Tell her that she cought your eye and that u decided to come talk to her.
By now you should be able to tel if she is interested in you or not by her reations, answers, and body language. So if things are looking up continue to conversation by telling her a little about urself, then asking her a little about HERself.
3) DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! If you are shy, or blush, or stutter, or are insecure, she will see that and thats a big turnoff. ( To avoid having these feelings and being able to control it, go to a shopiing centre, and just start approaching random hot chicks, till eventually u will feel comfortable walking up to a chick and speaking to her.
4) Go to Sosuave and read everything on that site, that will also help u, and make sure that u read the bible as well. thats a MUST.
With practice, u will be able to approach any girl u want.
Laterz...
1) start by introducing yourself (Name etc)
2) Tell her that she cought your eye and that u decided to come talk to her.
By now you should be able to tel if she is interested in you or not by her reations, answers, and body language. So if things are looking up continue to conversation by telling her a little about urself, then asking her a little about HERself.
3) DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! DONT BE SHY! If you are shy, or blush, or stutter, or are insecure, she will see that and thats a big turnoff. ( To avoid having these feelings and being able to control it, go to a shopiing centre, and just start approaching random hot chicks, till eventually u will feel comfortable walking up to a chick and speaking to her.
4) Go to Sosuave and read everything on that site, that will also help u, and make sure that u read the bible as well. thats a MUST.
With practice, u will be able to approach any girl u want.
Laterz...
i know all that ****
anyways i know the girl and she knows me but we havent talked in like 3 years since we were freshman and we sort of hang with different crowds i just dont know what to say to her to spark up a conversation
so can someone help me with that cuz i didnt see anything in the bible about this kind of stuff
anyways i know the girl and she knows me but we havent talked in like 3 years since we were freshman and we sort of hang with different crowds i just dont know what to say to her to spark up a conversation
so can someone help me with that cuz i didnt see anything in the bible about this kind of stuff
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i hate to say this, since i just said it in another thread, but this post is in dire need of a wake up call....
READ THE BLEEDING BIBLE!!!!!!!!!
READ THE BLEEDING BIBLE!!!!!!!!!
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
sorry man lots of pent up energy i needed to release 
just try to corner her somewhere and start up a convo. ask her what shes been up to lately, build some rapport with good ole fashion convo, then say something about hanging out and getting "re-aqwainted"
how the HELL do you spell that?
just try to corner her somewhere and start up a convo. ask her what shes been up to lately, build some rapport with good ole fashion convo, then say something about hanging out and getting "re-aqwainted"
how the HELL do you spell that?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
3 years and you aint spoken to her? Are you waiting for someones else to speak to her?
Something along the lines of "I haven't spoken to you in a while, what's up" should do fine. Stop overcomplicating everything. Say SOMETHING did end this 3 year thing
Something along the lines of "I haven't spoken to you in a while, what's up" should do fine. Stop overcomplicating everything. Say SOMETHING did end this 3 year thing
blah!
anyways... here is a link that you can go to and read about what u should do in this kind of situation ---> What to say to her I hope this helps you... Goodluck.
its been 3 years since you have spoken to her, and you cant find anything to say to her?
anyways... here is a link that you can go to and read about what u should do in this kind of situation ---> What to say to her I hope this helps you... Goodluck.
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